Hey guys, need some PUA advice. So i've been friends with this girl for 3 months now...she friendzoned me a month ago because I honestly used to be so AFC that I didn't make any moves. A month into this PUA stuff I managed to get out of the friendzone. Last night we watched a movie, cuddled, then slowly escalated into making out...I gave her a great back massage before (under shirt) and also a hand massage. The make out session was great as well. It got fairly intense.

So now its the next day...do I text her and say something nice? "I had a great time last night, no regrets..." something like that? or do I leave it alone and let her come to me? Don't want to slip back into my old AFC ways. Thanks for the help!

Since you already know this girl, already have built rapport with her, and used to act extrememly needy around her, I would take this as an opportunity to break a little of that rapport you have built up to not text her (or at least wait until she texts you first)... It will demonstrate that you aren't as needy as she thought you were, and it will show that you don't consider making out to be a big deal (as if you were totally used to making out with lots of girls and expected it to happen).

Then, next time you meet up, escalate more rapidly and ferociously

If this was a woman who you just met last night (who didn't know you as a total AFC), I would have a little different advice... I would then say to wait a day or two and then text her... That way you could build a little rapport without coming across as needy

great advice...I want to text her very badly but thats my AFC side coming out. I'm proud to say that I've successfully got out of the friendzone though..took lots of work...

I just don't want her to think that I made out with her and now I don't want to talk to her, so I hope she texts me in the next couple days.

I would text her something funny. Something like, "Umm. Is it wrong that I like that you took advantage of me last night? "

Makes it seem like SHE was hitting on YOU, but that you are game to keep it goin.

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I actually like this! I don't usually text a girl the day after I make out with her, but something like this could really work!!

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. . . So its been 2 days now...and she hasn't texted me or called me or anything. Should I text her something funny? Or continue waiting...the last thing I want is for her to think I'm needy, but I also don't want her to think that I just kissed her for the sake of kissing and now I buggered off...(I kinda like this girl, wanna take it slow and see where it goes)

NOOO! NOOOO! NOOOO! YOU DO NOT! TEXT HER BACK! HELL NO! NOT AT ALL! LOL...........TRUST ME BRO! DO NOT! she'll thinkyou just used her and be wondering wtf and she'll text you.....give it a few days and casually be like 'we have unfinished business ' haha that always works for me.....but that funny line was really hilarious...so hilarious it just might work and im gonna use if fo sho

Ok so I resisted everything in me to text her...and in all honesty I was typing something in my phone and she texted me! She said she's bringing 2 of her friends to my concert tomorrow (I'm in a successful band). So I'm with my friend who is also learning PUA tactics. We talked about a reply and i waited about an hour then said "oh really?? are they hot?" About half an hour later she replied with "hah! what kind of question is that??"

haha...so now what?