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| Mike1 | PostPosted: Sat Jul 03, 2010 2:06 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Dec 16, 2009 4:56 am Posts: 121 | | Guys your help is appreciated, looks like I am messing up at kino:
Background: Met her online. After the initial meet, this was the second one, or day 2. Made out at the initial meet. I think here is where I messed up during the last meet: I was keeping up the kino at the restaurant and making out - apparently, PDA makes her uncomfortable.
I talked to her today, she said she was also uncomfortable that I asked her to come over later. I actually had only asked her to come over next time, should I not have brought it up? I did not argue about it as it is pointless.
So, when I take a girl out to eat, do I not kino at all?
And what did I do wrong in asking her to come over and catch a movie at the next meet-up?
From what she said, overall, I think the bottom-line was that she got the impression that I was looking for a relationship, and that she was not ready for it yet. And that I was moving too fast.
I clarified for her that it is fun hanging out with her and she seems to enjoy it too, and that I am not looking for a relationship immediately. She sounded relieved, and I suggested that we should hang out soon. She agreed/seemed open to the idea.
How can I avoid getting into this situation next time?
Should I only ramp up on kino after I have isolated her as she seems uncomfortable with PDA? If I try to isolate without sufficient kino beforehand, I am guessing that's not going to work.
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