Alright guys,

Need some help here...

Before I got into all this PUA stuff (a couple of months ago) I was dating this girl. She was into me until I messed it up by being a needy AFC and she gave me the LJBF line. That inspired me to change my dating tactics and start learning how to do things properly.

I've been seeing other girls and things have been going well but I still keep thinking about that other girl and how I can now see almost every step I went wrong with her.

It's frustrating! I know her sister so I still have a connection to her apart from a number or whatever....

The last time I heard from her she said she didn't want to lose contact with me but didn't want a relationship and would I be ok with being just friends. I responded by writing a bitter, arrogant, somewhat insulting email (it was supposed to be cocky/funny but I only came across the concept earlier that day and wasn't exactly an expert in the technique). It was a total over-reaction that just came off insecure.

I showed the email to two friends separately (girls) and both of them were like 'omg, you SENT that?? well... at least you got it off your chest but you'll never hear from her again!'. They were right...

Both girls told me absolutely not to apologise about the email, and I'm sure most guys here would agree. I would never write that email now, because now I'd be in control of myself and the situation and react a lot differently so I regret writing it.

Question is, should I try to rekindle the situation with her and use my newfound knowledge to do things better? If so, how? Or, am I slipping back into AFC mode? Should I keep pushing my focus toward the future and the other awesome girls I can meet instead? Should I even acknowledge that it was a stupid email, even if I don't push to rekindle the situation?

only if u'll wait a few YEARS

what I mean is.. lay of it man.. explore and go find other girls, it will be more peaceful with them anyhow

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