I'm feeling really good on confidence right now, to a degree I guess. But I keep getting this same urge to resort to being an AFC. Been talking to this girl, got with her yesterday. She drops so many IOIs, and she's made it obvious that she likes me a lot, and I'm sure she knows I'm into her. We talk back and forth a lot, and she's generally really flirty, especially if I am.

On one hand, I'm certain that she's so into me that there's not too many things I could do to really mess this up. But I still can't help worrying about what I say. This way of thinking with girls is how I've been programmed into thinking for years. Telling myself I'm the prize and all that stuff just isn't super useful to change the mindset. I wouldn't say I have one-itis or anything, but I suppose I'm focusing more on her than I am with other girls, if not just as a courtesy of the fact that it appears that she's focusing on me more than other guys.

Any suggestions out of the usual to get me to stop thinking like this? I'm getting on my own nerves by thinking how I am, and I have a feeling that vibe will rub off on her when I'm around her.

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I will never claim my suggestions to be what is purely right. These are just what they are: suggestions. If I give a suggestion to you and it sounds good, but backfires miserably, do not blame me. I can't guarantee you anything.

Yeah man I got one. You won't even believe me on this, but trust me, it works! Just go and start conversation with GUYS. Now I know it sounds weird, but when you are the one initiating conversation, it makes you feel alpha. Next, start conversations with random girls. It doesn't matter if they are pretty or not. Work your way up to HB10s. Trust me, it works.

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