Hey guys i met this girl a couple of days ago, we've been talking online and over phone for a while before that and we really clicked, atleast that's what i thought until the day after we met, she seemed really distant and not like before and this freaks me out because i really like her...

Anyways, we met and everything was good, nothing happend we just ate and had a good time, when i left she gave me a pretty long hug, when i did let go she continued to hug me so i hugged back once again and it was nice.

The day after our date she didn't talk as much as she used too, when i tell her i like her i get nothing in return, when i ask her if she wanna talk i get a maybe. She doesn't feel well, is sad or something else. And this worries me, she tells me it has nothing to do with me but im fucking insecure so i'm getting pretty sad, this is the first girl i liked for real since my break up so im a little scared, i don't wanna feel this feelings if she doesn't feel the same you know.

Do i worry to much or what should i do?

Ask her what's bothering her.
Ask her why she's being distant.

It has only been a couple of days and i told her she could talk to me if she wanted, that im here for her you know but she said "i rather not, i don't really wanna talk to anyone" so im kinda stuck... And to ask her why she's being so distant feels a little early, just after a couple days? Maybe i should wait longer even tho it kills me?

There is a book called 'How to Become An Alpha Male'. I suggest you buy this book and read it cover to cover. Then, go back and read it again and take notes. Then write down the sentences that really made an impression on to 'sticky notes' and paste the notes throughout your house. You REALLY need to get a hold of your insecurities gorydays.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Thanks, i will read it! But what do you think about the situation im in? Should i just forget her and move on?

Yes, forget her...at least until you have read the book. You can't deal with this type of situation without the right mindset. This book will help you get there. You may be able to download it.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

But i really really like her, and i can't say that about many girls... I have read like 50 pages so far and taken notes on body language and how to act / not act... But is this really enough? I can't handle another failure...

i should also say i haven't said or done anything really to show her this insecurity, i tell her that she's sweet, cute and that i like her, maybe a little too much but that's it. I just need this insecurity and worrying to stop, i don't wanna lose her ya know... She also has told me that "she's not in a hurry" to a relationship, maybe i should just relax? Maybe it's nothing? Maybe she had a bad day? She tells me she likes me aswell ya know and that she thinks im cute and stuff.

Damnit...

Keep reading, it will all start to make sense.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene