okay first of all, you may be an amog. But the whole conversation about the salad, she probably just said that to be messing around with the other guy. Girls do that all the time.
Yes it is good that other people have to qualify themselves to you, but they may also be intimidated.
The girl with the fight probably thought you could knock a few heads and she probably wanted to see a fight. Doesn't mean she's into you (but doesnt mean she isnt)
Last of all, how big is 195 cm and 100 kilos? I'm American, I don't give a shit about other people's units of measurement

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