I think one of weaknesses, is that if I get attached, it's quick and very hard for me to let go. Part of this makes me scared of relationships, even short ones. I may not really care about the person a lot during the relationship, but once they're gone, I miss them a lot. For this very reason, I don't like it when I begin to take interest and like a person. It makes me vulnerable, once I start to like someone, I've very easily influenced by what she does. I don't like being vulnerable. I guess never getting hurt is good, but then again the loneliness accompanies never getting hurt.

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I think it's just one of those risks we have to take. I'd rather go through all the fun and happiness of the relationship and deal with the pain when it comes. Someday the girl won't hurt you.