Guys,i did a aproach yesterday,it was so crap i wanted to cry.


So,there are "two" parts of the history,thats the first part:
Im gonna try not to write too much,so here we go.
My teacher came up to me,and said there was a girl "into me",she said she find me handsome and these kind of stuff.
Also,the friends of that girl,came to me and asked me if was seeing someone,it has some weeks.
I dont really know how to open her,i was thinking using the opener "are you shy?",but anyone have better sugestions?

I dont even think im gonna get her anyway,failing again would suck so much.

We never talked,and i only see her once a week.
Observation:The teacher kinda "apresented" each other some day,but it was too fast.

And the second part,that was when i approached:
So,she was in the yard of the school on her break,i decided to go and talk to her.
So i said something like:Hey,how are you? That day we couldnt really talk,there was no time.
She:Yeah,i had to do a work for the school too.
ME:SO can you wait me here after the classes?
She:okay.
So when the classes finished i went to talk to her.
ME:Hey,do you leave with the school bus or something? can you wait here a little bit more?
She:yeah,and my dad picks me up here.
ME:The truth is,i would like to kiss you. can i kiss you? (be aware that theres no literal translation for that line in my country,so that was the closest thing i could say to you guys)
She:hummm,"ok" with a very low voice.
ME:So,lets go down there,there are too many people here.
SHE:The supervisor is right there,we can get in trouble because of this.
ME:So,can you go out on the street?
She:My dad picks me here,so i cant really do it.
So i said something like: okay,tell me truth,for real, do you want to do it or not?
She:yeah,i kinda do,but i cant do it here.

Then she invited me for a party in a school that she was going.
She asked me if was going online on MSN yesterday,and i said yeah,meet you there then.
But she didnt really was online yesterday.

I dont know whats the point of this,is she making fun of me? Thats so mean,if she doesnt want me she couldve said it,im very down right now. What can i do guys?

I know its a little bit LARGE,but i sincerely ask for your help on this,i literally LOST.

Holy smoke this is tight!


Let me summarize this:
You said hi, she said hi.
You said you want to kiss her, she wants too.
You couldn't kiss because of bad logistics, so you time-bridged.

I don't see any problem?


Okay, you've probably learned a valueable lesson: Isolate the target before you make out. The thing with kissing is, it's not a big deal. There's nothing wrong with kissing in public. Next time, just kiss her, and everything will be fine. And if it doesn't, you have detention together and she will never forget you ('I once kissed a guy, and then we had detention. It was so romantic')

Her not showing up on msn can has all kinds of reasons. For instance: Maybe her dad's car broke down and she had to walk home? Maybe her cat died? Maybe a computercrash? You don't know, but you mustn't assume that she is playing with you. From my point of view, she really digs you (else she didn't want to kiss you).
Don't worry about what other people think of you, because other people are equally as busy thinking about what you think of them. You should be thinking about yourself and other positive things in life.

Go to that party, or even better: Meet up at your or her place. Remember that you're in a good position (if you look at the facts), now go for it.

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Indeed youre doing fine. Dont ask her if you want to kiss her though, just do it. (I can tell youre very young and I do understand thats what school goers do, try get into the habit of not telling girls that you like them, and never asking them for permission to do anything. You are a man, do what as you feel and please!)

The problem is,we didnt have anything scheduled for the party,we would have to meet up on msn to do that.
and after a kiss in the cheek i tried do give her a little peck on the lips,but she kinda turned her head.

honestly i think everything went wrong and like shit.

get her phone number. why do you have to meet up on MSN.

she said she broke her cell,and her sister got hers :lol:
and she said her father is "overprotecting" ,so calling there wouldnt be a good idea.

How old are y'all, if you don't mind me asking? And where are you from? Those 2 questions being answered would make it a lot easier to answer how to handle this situation.

Im 16,i dont know about her,maybe 15 or something like that.
What do you mean where are we from? We study on the same school.

Thanks and keep waiting for replies

where are you from, meaning country.

She's REALLY into you.

[/quote]I dont really know how to open her,i was thinking using the opener "are you shy?",but anyone have better sugestions?[/quote]

"Hi" is better.

[/quote]I dont even think im gonna get her anyway,failing again would suck so much..[/quote]
SHE'S NERVOUS AND HOPING that YOU'LL like her back!!

[/quote]We never talked,and i only see her once a week.
Observation:The teacher kinda "apresented" each other some day,but it was too fast.

And the second part,that was when i approached:
So,she was in the yard of the school on her break,i decided to go and talk to her.
So i said something like:Hey,how are you? That day we couldnt really talk,there was no time.[/quote]

[/quote]She:Yeah,i had to do a work for the school too.[/quote]

Her heart is beating as she's excited that you're talking to her.

[/quote]ME:SO can you wait me here after the classes?
She:okay.[/quote]

MAJOR IOI. SHE WANTS YOU.

[/quote]So when the classes finished i went to talk to her.
ME:Hey,do you leave with the school bus or something? can you wait here a little bit more?
She:yeah,and my dad picks me up here.
ME:The truth is,i would like to kiss you. can i kiss you? (be aware that theres no literal translation for that line in my country,so that was the closest thing i could say to you guys).[/quote]

Just go for it, asking is what AFC's do.

[/quote]She:hummm,"ok" with a very low voice.
ME:So,lets go down there,there are too many people here.
SHE:The supervisor is right there,we can get in trouble because of this.
ME:So,can you go out on the street?
She:My dad picks me here,so i cant really do it.
So i said something like: okay,tell me truth,for real, do you want to do it or not?
She:yeah,i kinda do,but i cant do it here.[/quote]

you're putting the decision in her hands/acting intimidated by others. Very beta behavior. Just go for it.

[/quote]Then she invited me for a party in a school that she was going.
She asked me if was going online on MSN yesterday,and i said yeah,meet you there then.
But she didnt really was online yesterday.

I dont know whats the point of this,is she making fun of me? Thats so mean,if she doesnt want me she couldve said it,im very down right now. What can i do guys?

I know its a little bit LARGE,but i sincerely ask for your help on this,i literally LOST.[/quote]

I don't wanna sound like a dick, as I genuinely want to help you, but do you have any prior experience with girls at all? She sent her friends to see if you like her back, she even sent a TEACHER, she agreed to hang out with you, to kiss you, and invited you to a party! SHE WANTS YOU. And you're feeling down 'cause you think that she's making fun of you?! She's doing more than most girls would, guys are supposed to lead, and yet she's doing the leading. She wants you.

hahahaha stanley,when you put it in that way,it seems she likes me,but who knows.
and im very low experiencied with chicks,im starting to overcome AA now,so i kinda suck.


and hows my country important dude?
i dont really like giving it away,sorry.


Guess im talking to her tomorrow again,i update you guys.

[quote="smarpesh"]and hows my country important dude?
i dont really like giving it away,sorry.
quote]

Oh yea, thats sensetive information. Should never be given out!
Bullshit!!
knowing your country will help some of us analyze your situation,
like if you lived in China where parents are STRICT TO THE CORE!
we can better your sitution by knowing! Than offer better Logistics

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I live in Brazil man,
things are pretty cool around here.

Ohhh, I've met a lot of Brazilians. Stop worrying about what will happen. You worry about that after you do it. Just kiss her. From what I've seen Brazilians aren't super uptight about kissing, or have very uptight parents(this is just the Brazilians I've met). A kiss is a kiss. Go in for it, if she likes you, she'll let you, if she doesn't, she'll pull back and say something like "Oh, I think we should just be friends." which really just isn't that bad of a thing to hear.

Based on the information you give us, we think us she really likes you. That's why we advice you to go for it.
If you do what you always do, you'll get what you always got. Try something. Call to her house, and if her parents answer, you can say you call because she has to tell you the answer to some homework assignment, or because she's lost some papers in school and you were worried she was looking for it. Normal parents aren't going to ask for every detail, they have better things to do. Tell them you want your girl on the phone, and then talk to her.
If problems occur, it's none of your business. And being the cause for any problem is attractive.

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