Thanks, first of all for everyone here. This is like the 3rd question I'm asking, and I'm trying not to be dependant on your info... but you guys are great. =]

anyways.

Okay.. There is an HB9 that I used to talk to ALL the time. We stopped for a bit, and now we've been messaging each other. I'd like to be put in the right direction, cause don't really want to mess this up.

Here is what has happened so far...

Me: Hey, I have a question I'd like to ask
a)Her: ? What's your question
b)Her: You know I was talking to someone about marriage and they told me that common law is 1 year now and not 4 so if you lived with someone in Ontario for that amount of time you have some citizen rights?

Interesting tid bit...


So are you and Kristen dating or something?
c) Her:cause...word on the street is you like e chicks...and she is your woman

Alright, I labelled them a,b,c.
In A, I want to make sure this question is a good question.. I'm going to be thinking abot it all day, but I just got these messages from her, and I know most of you guys have been in this position before. remember, HB9.

In B, I was going to move to Toronto for a summer job (Pay is SO good.) plus, she lives there.. she's recently been looking for a roommate, and I guess this is her way to try and convince me.

C) I was thinking of something to say like, "Well word around the campfire is, that you're a good kisser.. but I guess we shouldn't believe everything we hear" ? I don't know... I feel embarrassed. lol



Input? Thanks

#1,change the wussy- type of mind set,"I dont really want to mess this up".

You're already on the path of messing things up with that mentality.

You shouldnt give a crap whether it messes up or not-that's an attractive mind-set and this girl will see that.

With the,"I dont want to mess this up" mentality,it'll have you doing and saying things you should NOT-just to not mess it up.

Anyway,the question of common-law marriage,or marriage in his sense would be a no-no[why you asking about marriage],but from your frame,it's actually a good semi-intereting question.

It could be chicc crack-subject matters which hook a woman.

Women love dabbling in those kind of questions.

But you did something real smart and framed the marriage question as though you were getting married-pre selection switch-nice work.

Lastly,the line about "word round the camp fire is that you're a good kisser"...

Lol,I actully like it,but it should only be said if this HB's already attracted to you.

Plus,you're leaving out lot of details.

Is she attrcted to you?

Are you trying to attract her or get her?

Is she open towards you,or are you doing all the word of attracting?

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thanks for the response k-loc, let me clarify a bit.

I'm trying to attract her, but before her and I were extremely close. I pushed her away because I wasn't ready to break that barrier. I left when emotions were high, and she still has good memories of me. But now I'm ready to move on to the next step.


"It could be chicc crack-subject matters which hook a woman. "
I'm not sure I'm understanding you, mind clarifying?

But so yeah, to answer your question, she is very attracted to me, she's extremely open with me, I'm most CERTAINLY not in the friends zone because we've made out, and we felt each other up. The Timing just wasn't right for sex. Distance is literally the ONLY thing separating us. the truth is, I live in Texas, she lives in Canada. But I have job opportunities there. so It can go anyway, really.

thanks for the response

I want her to feel that I have alot of things going for me in Texas, but I could be open in starting things in the future.

I'm not sure if I should deny having association with Kristin, she is a girl who lives nearby, and lately has been giving me quite the amount of attention. I have no idea how my target knows anything abot this, but its clear to me she's been creeping. hehe.

1stly,chicc-crack is a seduction term usualy applying to subjects that women love to talk about-which hook them like drugs- crack.

So,talk of hook up,dating,sex,adventure are all chick-crack.

Now,about the job opp' in Canada.

It'd be cool to go-if it's on your terms,your choice.

But by no means should you relocate because of a girl.

She wll eventully resent the move and she will not see that as a good thing in the long run-it's too big of a sacrifice to have moved to Canada just to be with her.

Women just arent programmed to see sacrifice as we men do.

I've been there where I moved to another country(island)in order to work,but in reality I made the move to be with her(unconsciously).

Major sacrifice but the girl didnt see it that way.She seen it as me being needy & clingy.

And if you do move to Canada and be with her exclusively,she will evenually rebel,act out & give you hell aginst that!!

She'll be semi-elated the 1st. week,then about a month later...downfall!!

So if you do move,make sure she knows that the decision had nothing to do with seeing her(even if it does,well lie!!!).

The moment she realizes that you'd made such a huge sacrifice for her,she'll rebel & regret,then eventully kick your ass out(if you moved in with her).

The average women just doesnt get sacrifice because sacrifice is rational,and women arent rational.

If you were to say & something totally illogical like,"Hey Im gonna quit my job for no reason,move to Russia,live on the streets,settle for a job that pays $500 less.

A woman would feel a bond with something so illogical as that.

But if you were to say,"Hey,Im in love with you,my current job pays $500,I can move to our own and make $1,000 more weekly,we can be happy and live safely.

A woman will not feel a bond with such logical idea,despite saying she loves the idea.

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