so talking to this girl, shes a nurse/student. She started liking her best friend who is in the military but stationed in texas... she started liking him because she always used to talk to him *they been friends for years*, after her relationships, she realized she likes him cuz he was always there for her to talk to yadda yadda, and now she wants to take a chance to fly out and see him, she talks about him alot, but she even says she has doubts.. and he is signed up for 6 years in the military, so i seriously doubt it would work. I really liked her b4 this too but sadly i fell in the FZ. but i do know she has a low self esteem seeing as her last bfs where all gangstas

Any tips i can use on this? im still trying to see her but we only talk on the phone.

You have oneitis. GFTOW.

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Don't hate, just dominate.

sorry im not sure why alot of peoples answers is "its oneitis get over it"..

This girl talks about this guy she likes who would no way have the time for her and hes in another state.. She is just crushing on him because of the way he looks, good looking bald guy with a fit MMA type body. etc

Just want some advice on directing some of that attention towards me, what can i do/

Really shady but here is what I did, i created a fake facebook profile, added a few people to make it look real. Then I added the guy she likes.. He initiated conversation, messaged the fake profile, even gave his # for her to text. I only gave like simple 1 sentence replies like "oh im ok" etc.

So than I took screenshots of the inbox and sent a message to the girl with "I dont know if this is your man but he is trying to get at me". This did it. she replied "thats fucked up i guess i never meant shit to him". and a few more light message exchanges where made. This is really low to make a fake profile, but he initiated the contact.

What also helped was there was another girl on his facebook who has showed some sort of connection with him by leaving him comments and even a pic with him on his page.

I really didnt want to see her wait for this fucker, i really want to see her.

She randomly called me today and told me about it, she said she cancelled her flight ticket .

Now heres the backfire, she said shes going to a bachlorette party for her cousin in vegas. and shes talking about "fuck it im single i can do whatever I want, imma just have fun and let go, drink, get lucky etc". Sounds like she might jus fuck someone out of frustration of the event.

It sounds very probable. Karma's hitting you for going that low. I think that was a reallyyy bad idea. She's single and going to a bachelorette party, and the only thing you could do to stop it is either schedule a meet up before the party, and escalate HARDCORE to help grow her feelings for you, or just tell her.

But, it's kind of a well known thing among the community never to actually tell a girl you like her.