hello, i just have a general question - is there any general guideline/posts here about how soon to go for the full close, when targeting an LTR?

also, is it more efficient to arrange for the day 3 directly at my place, or arrange the day 2 or day 3 elsewhere and then try to bounce to my place? does it seem overly eager if i ask about day 3 while towards the end of day 2?

i had tried to set a day 3 at my place before, the girl had initially agreed but then flaked. i think she feels going straight away to my place on day 3 is a direct invite for sex - she does not want the responsibility and just freezes up.

your input will be very helpful for calibration.

Don't set up day 3 on day 2. Keep her wondering if she'll ever see you again. Don't ever let a woman know that she has you because then she'll quit wanting you. Someone can't want what they already have.

I think as guys we want to rush everything because we're in doubt as to whether we have her, but you need to be confident about the fact that you've always got her and you can just kick back and let her come to you.