Problem 1: I met a girl on Myspace, we hung out one night, and on the second night we made out at my place. We used to text each other witty lines and always leave on high notes. Now, after we made out, she hasn't texted me once, and if she does, its kind of brief and to the point. I usually text her with a witty line, but I get almost nothing for 3 or 4 hours, and I'm not sure if she's testing me or what! Maybe she has buyers remorse? That can't be, since we built comfort for at least 4 hours, and she was laughing and having so much fun around me. We're going to the mall today, but I hope she isn't doing it just to "give me signals to leave her alone"

Problem 2: I find it difficult to get girls at a mall, and I don't go clubbing or partying too often (work very early in the morning and other responsibilities). So.. is there such thing as a technique that involves solely around getting a girl JUST to get closer to her friends, and then to her friends and so on? Or does this not work realistically?