Had 2 meetings which went well, kissed her through out the 2nd one. Next day she went to Thailand on holiday for 2 weeks, keeping in touch on facebook.

My problem is that when ever i try turn the convo sexual (which im normally very good at) she doesnt bite. Im quite a bit older than her and im starting to think that she is weary of me wanting only 'one thing' and is testing me to see if i actually care and give a shit about her. I definitely have attraction, but its hard to read her as she never complies with the subtle sexual banter etc.

Another indicator, her mother tried to hook her up on a date as she has no friends with her in thailand, she wasnt interested and told me about it, i said to her... 'ha ha thats really cool of your mom to try and hook you up! Cool mom! even though i think im going to have to have a word with her '. She completely ignores this comment and replies chatting about other shit...but i know she is attracted as she invests a lot and would have lost contact long ago if she wasnt.

What is your take on this...

One of my wingmen reckons that its at a point now where i need to convey a bit more feeling and show that i care, how would you convey this? (over facebook). it would be easier in person as i would normally just escalate physically and calibrate as I go.