ok so i met her last week and we made out and she had to go so there was no f-close,

we txted before and we have an inside thing about "lifestyle" lol


so she texts me today to invite me out and this is how it goes:

HB: hey me and my girl are going out for drinks later tonite after work today if your not too busy with that lifestyle of yours haha

ME: as much as i want to i can't, my lifestyle has my busy then usual for the next few days.

HB: word to the wise, i get bored easilly so if you wanna see me again, id make it sooner then later... just saying

ME:haha =P

HB your not the only living that kind of lifestyle

ME: haha, becareful, im not your avg nice guy

HB: and im not your avg girl next door

ME: i hop ur not lying, i like that

HB: im not sure you'll ever find out cuz why would i ever get close to a not nice guy?..



ok so how can i reply to that last text?

all advice is helpful =]
thank you

It aseems she really does want to meet up with you and I;d take her advice and make it soon, but when it;s convenient for you of course. Call her bluff, set a date and time and adhere to it. you cant make drinks tonight but im available at this time. Deal with it. If she cant make it, her loss. You know how all this goes im sure. Just go balls to the wall with a girl like this. Set the date and stick to it, I have the feeling a girl like her would love you to take control like that and have her coming to YOU.

tell her your gonna meet up with her and she can judge 4herself how awesome you are...something like that
Dude ur fine just set up something with her wher yal can talk in person SOON

thats good advice except i legitly dun have time to hang out with her for atleast the next 3 days, maybe thursday night, ima call her and invite her to a party im doing that night,

but until then what should i reply to this text or i shouldn't reply at all?

Just call her to invite her.

alrite thanks guys, called her and we hanging out thursday nite =]


so other then that, how u think my text game from this convo is?
u guys think there is something i should improve on?

I think you did really good. You didn't give in to what she wanted, and you invited her when you were ready to invite her out. You did good. Tell us how Thursday goes!

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