im trying to game a couple girls at my workplace ( a restuarant ) and i find this WAY more tricky than really any other social interaction. now im a good looking guy, probably either the best or second best looking male at the place so i get small iois from girls all the time. ex.

- if im around the girl and i think shes paying attention to me but wont look at me, ill look at a random spot around the room then pay attention to her too see if she looks over there. and pretty much everytime i try it im right.

-also another one ive noticed and im 90% sure im right is that if i walk past a girl and shes interested but not comfortable with me yet then instead of making eye contact she will look at my hands or whatever im holding as we pass by. i noticed this because i do it myself sometimes.

these along with randomly striking up convos that arent necessary/striking up convos with ONLY me when they could be a group thing lead me to believe there is strong interest but not attraction. ex. "does your hat ever give you headaches? " when theres 3 other ppl wearing hats around us.

but if theres not attraction/comfort shes not going to be to open for strong kino or any type of qualification tests so i ask you. why the fuck do i care about iois? i get iois from tonnes of girls but few are willing to tickle me back if i tickle them or even play fight me. so basically i need indications of attraction? am i right or wrong here?