What to do, what to do


1. Lets start off with the "how. "Wednesday June 16th

Heres how I followed up with her and asked her (yesterday) after meeting her last Saturday.


Me.
I hope your still ashamed for wearing flip-flops to a lounge, what do you have to say for yourself!?

Her.
ha easy for u to say mr its not like u have to walk around in heels all night, guys have it so easy! But I think ill branch out and get a sexy pair to wear out
I really want to get something colorful, like a blue, deep purple, or red… Hm, so many options

Me.
Whoo Now your talking! Lol

Me.
Where are you going to let me take you all dressed up like that?

Her.
Hard to say! You see, im actually a big fan of suprises:)

Me.
lol I can tell. You completely blew me away by surprise last Saturday!

Me. Are you able to go out on weeknights?

Her. Haha u crack me up with that cheezy line Hm depends how late id be out, I work very early. And have class

Me. lol I was talking about how you shocked me wearing flipflops although you are a pretty girl as well. Depends on what we do, I think you should let me pick you up this Thursday and we'll see whats going on that night?

Me. Sorry, I'm trying to make dinner!

Her. Ha well lets just pretend u werent talking about my flip flops, sounds better Now when u say cooking do u mean cooking or "cooking" mac&cheese lol

Me. I was making eggs, steammed vegetables, sauteed mushrooms and some toast. Oh, and chocolate cake for desert!

Her. so, if we go out thurs u have to have me home by 1 at the latest, sound good?! Im also not out of class till around 830 so that doesn’t leave much time?

Me. oh, ya I'd definitely like to spend more time with you than that lets see…

Her. Wow, sounds delicious! You just might put my cooking skills to shame lol

Me.hard to say, will you cook for me sometime?

Her. sure, but only if you cook for me first. I like to size up my competition

Me. Haha Right away! Would you have more free time on Friday or Saturday night?

Her. Oh free time is hard to come by these days lol. I have plans sat. BUT have yet to make plans for Friday. Im thinking Friday or maybe Friday? So many options

Me. lol Friday it is. What time do you free up?

Her. Ill be off work around 530, then u want to factor in the beauty time, and putting on heels, Omg:) so that’s my time line!

Me. Then finally will you have time for me?

Her. I'll see what I can do whats ur day like on Friday?

Me. Oh, Friday's a pretty lax day for me. I have to complete this project for school, drive to S.F. to pick up a few things, and get ready for you;)

Her. Haha all in all sounds like a good Friday to me! So do u want to set a time or wld u like me to give u a call when Im home from work…

Me. Oh no, were giving princess a pick up time! I know how you girls lag. Lol how about I come by to pick you up at 9?

Her. Haha good thinking! 9 wil work just fine:) alrihty well now that that’s figured out, time to get my beauty sleep lol. I wil see you Friday. Goodnight!

Me. I better see heels and a nice dress! Lol good night you.



Heres the "why" Saturday June 12th

Why I texted her that.

I just walked into a lounge at 1:20am (ten minutes before closing time in cali) and noticed two girls sitting by themselves at the bar and walked up to entertain them and I noticed the hotter one wearing flip flops?! Immediately I hit her with some negs about the flip-flops and it worked out to my advantage. Her friend joined in laughing and was like “I couldn’t get her to wear heels as she doesn’t own any!” She also said “ I even had to lend her my dress because this girl doesn’t go out, ever!” Apparently that lounge was the first club this girl has ever been to in her life and she’s 23. All I know about her is that she’s in school studying psychology, working with animals, a little religious but drinks every now and then and just got out of a 6 year relationship and is a homebody tomboy, BUT she’s smoking hot. It gets even better, I’m pretty sure that she doesn’t know that she’s hot either?!! She didn’t act that way at all that night, also im drawing that conclusion per our text message conversation but I’ll let you be the judge of that.

We talked and laughed for about 15 minutes as their girl who worked at the lounge got off and they had to get going and im walking them out and we are still fully engaged in conversation and once we got outside I had all three of them laughing and talking for about another 10 minute and as we were wrapping it up I said (to the hot one) “you should let me call you sometime” and she gladly gave me her number.


And finally the "what." Now, Thurday night June 17th.


My problem is that I’ve been out of the game for a little bit now (spent the last 4 years working like heck to start and establish a business), and i'd like to know, into broken down detail the "what.:

a) what i did right, how, and why?
b) what i did wrong, how, and why?
c) what shes thinkin?
d) what I should do with her this friday (tomorrow) and how I should treat her?
e) how do I know if shes just a skeezy looking for some fun or sex and if im just a rebound?


To my current understanding, heres what were working with;

a) Freshly available after a long relationship and told me she wants to do different things. Doesn’t seem clingy and excited to hang out with me?
b) She’s not used to dressing up or going out.
c) Religious but does drink.
d) Pretty and doesn’t act stuck up.


What are your views on the experience that started on Saturday, was re-entertained on Wednesday and is now ongoing onto Friday.