With normal game I have no problems but then when I see the girl that I'm actually into and want an LTR with I fuck up. My first question is do you think if she starts conversations with me it's an IOI. I talk to her rarely but when I do we usually enjoy each others company. But lately whenever I see her I get nervous and shit which fucking pisses me off. I want to hang out with her but I don't know how I'm going to open her =\. Whenever she says stuff to me I usually respond with a "shutup maddy!!" type of thing in a playful manner. But that's like dumb as hell so I need to fix that. Can I get any help. I don't have oneitis btw, its just that she's LTR material and I definitely like her more then the other chicks I'm gaming

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Nothing in pick up applies to all women. There's no such thing as rejection... they're just playing hard to get.

You probably DO have oneitis if you keep fucking up.

Seriously, you always have to be on guard. Anyway, stop caring so much. That will fix it.

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Don't hate, just dominate.

is oneitis when you only game one girl or when you only want one girl? because she's prety much the only girl i actually want. the other ones are just hott and i would get with them but thats it. but yea its hard to just not care lol trust me ive tried. ill just try to start the conversation next time and try to keep my cool instead of having her open me and me going *aww shit wtf do i do* lol

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Nothing in pick up applies to all women. There's no such thing as rejection... they're just playing hard to get.

only want, just be cool, you have to let her know you want her when your getting into LTR, remember that.

Why would you game girls you don't want?

Well, I guess for practice. But generally that's a bad idea.

In any case, oneitis is if you have one specific girl that you want more than the others, because you think she's "special". So, that's what it sounds like you have.

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Don't hate, just dominate.

Then god damnit I think I got oneitis lol and the other girls I game are ones that I only want to be FWB with.

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Nothing in pick up applies to all women. There's no such thing as rejection... they're just playing hard to get.

Yep Sur-real you have oneitus lol The best tip i can give you is to focus on her inperfections (mentally) should help make it easier for you to game her.

I don't really see any flaws. GOD DAMNIT THIS ISN'T HELPING lmao. I'm just gonna try and focus on the other girls I'm gaming more.

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Nothing in pick up applies to all women. There's no such thing as rejection... they're just playing hard to get.

One thing I read recently from gambler is that you should treat her like your girlfriend. Show her what it would feel like to date you, use kino and some push/pull perhaps. Shes gotta know it feels comfortable to date you before she will want to do that.

When you see her and she has friends with her, be sure you game her friends too. Win them over. This is very powerful, and it prevents you from looking needy.

RE: oneitis.... you don't want to be purely and solely interested in her, but you do want to show that she is more important. Don't be obvious. Use subtle things like extra kino and tease a little more. She won't want an LTR with you if you appear like you want everyone.... (player)