Hi guys im new to this site although ive been reading it for a couple of weeks now.

Jist of the story

Girl at work, im her senior, I really like her and she has admitted she liked me but unfortunately she has a boyfriend. It appears she has a strange relationship however and we hang out for example going for drinks etc. She ha admitted that her relationship with her boyfriend wont last but she does see him as her best friend.

Now considering that I like her, she likes me and we do have this camaraderie and understanding - should I persist and pursue this? if so, how?

The last girl I was "involved" with I had issues which destroyed three years of my life. I aint gonna let this happen to this girl and I want to just force my way through with this girl so to speak. By forcing i mean actually acting like a man and chase her properly.

How would I pursue her effectively? Ive read about all this kino/negs etc and im such a beginner I had to find out what all the abbreviations meant.

Thanks in advance

keep hanging out with her. for me friends ALWAYS turn into a fuck buddy or girlfriend. bring her out late and have fun, show her who you are and that your beter than that other guy. aslo, goolge the straw man technique.

Thanks Prince had a look at it - the thing is I am not too bothered about the boyfriend - she knows he is no good and he does and has cheated on her.

The thing is I am in th friend zone but not too deeply the major factor is that we work together and I am her senior.

What I need to do is to get out of the work and friend zone so I think I should just tell her how much I want to shag her cos thats really what I want.

I want to get her into bed so so so badly. and all I have done so far is shown her my good/nice side. But now I need to show her the real me the real me i.e. the guy that would show her a good time and bang her real good.

I just dont know how to go about it. I need the perfect setting - what is the perfect setting a bar? a club? just spontaneously?

Anyone be able to help with this please or had similiar experiences?