Hey guys,

I'll get straight to it. The last two of my nightclub "pickups" have not been because I gamed the girls, but rather that they just jumped me. Usually when I have success infield I choose a target, open with a natural opener, leading to some DHV and a lot of coldreading. But in these two instanses, the girls jumped straight at me and we were making out within 30 seconds. I'll break this down a bit and then throw in my question.

Girl 1 (Dancefloor girl): Started making out on first contact, danced for about 5-6 minutes (very sexy dance, alot of groping). She was really energetic but I was rather laid back, being cool and showing that I could control myself. Then I asked her to go with me into a room there so we could talk. She followed me halfway there, turend around and went back to the dancefloor and danced her ass off. We had no contact after that.

Girl 2 (Smoking section girl): Started making out within a minute she sat down beside me. Made out alot and talked, used alot of C&F, had good raport. She asked me to go to the dancefloor and I said no, wanted to stay there instead, talk and make out. So 2 minutes later she stands up and goes to the dancefloor. Didn't see her after that.

My question: Was I not matching their energy? Did I maybe not hook them enough so they would prefer me rather then the dancefloor? Can energetic girls be taimed in field and brought to your energy level?

-Aktor