Hi,
Is it a good idea to call a girl out on her attraction, like "I know you like me girl, stop pretending, I see the signs, etc"? Is it considered cocky and funny, or does it burst the bubble of sexual tension that you're building?
Any advice from someone with first-hand experience would be appreciated. TY.

Alot of girls dont take things directly like that very well. When there direct, they do it on there own. Just keep playing it cool and doing what your doing and things will happen. I dont remember where I heard it but it was something about guys wanting verbal confirmation that a girl likes them and to try and just use your gut and recognize the IOI's. You dont need that verbal confirmation and for me it made things a little awkward. Women love spontinaity (sp?) just let them think that when you do progress things they're making those choices themselves. All about the game! Avoid those verbal agreements unless you want to take it to that next step!

Being direct about it is just a bad idea.

It purposely seeks to dispel the tension and mystery which is what is building your attraction.

Instead, you could give her some possible signs that you know about it, and then she'll get super excited trying to figure out whether you know or not. Then she'll be more attracted.

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I agree somewhat, however you can be direct about it, just dont be SERIOUS about it and keep it playful. If a girl smses me randomly while theyre out clubbing late at night and we dont know each other that well just yet, i say...

'aaawwe youre all drunk and thinking of me....cuuuuute.' (kind of patronizing but its playful). By saying this i am implying that she is interested in me, and not ONCE have they ever denied it as they cant, as they MUST have been thinking of me to randomly send me that text msg.

Or accusing her of taking advantage of you, or dont dream too much of me as you'll wear yourself out! etc.

Roland1232, if you are ever serious when asking a girl whether she likes you, or if you ever tell her that you like her....youre screwed mate (and no that doesnt mean you will be screwed by her, just screwed FULL STOP).

Did it once ... didn't work.

She was blatantly into me. It was pretty much obvious, but by me calling her out on that took all the playfulness and fun out of the situation.

It's kinda like me going into Mackey D's, ordering a burger then asking the cute cashier to pay for it.

You see... She gets nothing out of it.

I understand what you're trying to do. You're trying cut out the BS wishy washy, teasing ALL girls use on guys. Simply accept that ALL girls do this...

You CAN NOT assert your dominance by demanding she tells you that she likes you.

"Oh please tell me that you like me. Then I'll know it's OK to try and kiss you and everything will be ohh so good."

You and I both know this ISN'T how it works.

Quit trying to fucking verbalise your dominance. It's bullshit. Sooo many needle dicked guys do this.


You assert your dominance through your action. Plain and simple.

Next time you're with her and you flirting, get up real close to her face hold eye contact. If she smiles and lowers her eyes, whisper 'I like it when you get all coy and shy. Am I making you nervous...' (with a big grin.)

Soon you'll reach a point where you're forcing your tongue down her throat... But wait... "What... I know you like me girl, stop pretending, I see the signs?"

LOL, it doesn't matter... Get it? She's already back rationalising why you're such a fucking great guy and you're swinging for a home ruuuuuuuuuuuuun!

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