Hey guys Pacific here with a challenge for you... for those of you familiar with the Zen of Cool you will understand this... for those of you who are not... look it up and learn it, or just don't worry about it and do the challenge step by step as I post it on here. This is a challenge to improve your inner game... here is how it goes...
You will be working on your Ghost characteristics and your Flame characteristics... you will be Ghost (Uncreative, Unaffected, No Big Deal) and Flame (Absurd, Negging, Pushing Away, Rolling off)... here is the challenge...
CHALANGE
Learning the Ghost:
Today you will be Uncreative, Unaffected, and No Big Deal
Learning the Flame:
Today you will be Absurd, Negging, Pushing Away, and Rolling off
NOTE:
Notice how the Ghost and the Flame contradict each other. This is how the zen of cool is suppose to be.
How Does This Look:
As your being playful and comfortable from part one of the challenge, nothing bothers you and sometimes you don't even realize what's going on around you. Your negging away and rolling off in your own head space not caring about anything. Your not affected by any external forces.
(I want you to apply this in your day to day life on anyone and everyone while sarging, hanging out with friends, or even working!)
EVALUATING YOURSELF:
Create a stop, start, continue list... anything you are doing wrong... put it under your stop. Anything you are not doing... put it under your start. Anything you are doing good... put it under your continue. Later you can go back and fix the Stops and begin the Starts and remind yourself to keep doing the Continues.
Create a Sticking Points list... and put anything that you want to work on there.
Do the 100 Point System challenge... which is...
100 Point System
Every Time..
Your not reacting to someone
Your unaffected by someone
You don't make a big deal of things you normally would
Your absurd
Your negging
You are pushing away
You are rolling off
You get 5 points... the goal is to get 100!!!
and last but not least...
Make a Crazy List of crazy things to do related to being... Uncreative, Unaffected, No Big Deal, Absurd, Negging, Pushing Away, and Rolling off
... (this is to keep you having fun and motivated)... Complete all the things on your list and you have successfully accomplished your Crazy List!
once you have completed all of this report back to this forum... share your success story in a brief Field Report
Check out my field report:
viewtopic.php?p=363679#363679
Talk to you soon