There's this HB6 and she likes me. I never kino escalate or anything usual so how do I get in the LJBF zone with her. I'm tryna game her friend and I feel like she's getting in the way a bit.

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LJBF? dont know what that means is she the one twat blocking you?

just tell her lets just be friends

RVAIS... then why would you even respond to this post?

Jelly... I don't want to just say that out of nowhere without starting to talk about 'us' and if I talk about 'us' then she might get the wrong idea before I tell her and then she might just fucking hate me. What do you think?

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Nothing in pick up applies to all women. There's no such thing as rejection... they're just playing hard to get.

I know how you feel. I've been in the friend zone before and it sucks. I posted a few tips on how to avoid the friend zone on my blog. Check it out:
http://puaintraining.com/2010/04/01/5-w ... iend-zone/

Hope it helps.

Mr Orange.. you didn't even read the damn post. I'm trying to get in the friend zone with a girl so that I can game her friend without her in the way because she likes me... thanks anyways.. i guess

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does she know you're into her friend?

what kind of signs does she give, that she wants you?

I agree that you shouldn't tell her "let's just be friends" unless she tells you, she wants more.
That would upset her and would be like she's been doing something inappropriate, since you need to tell her to back off.

I'd say just be aloof?

Femme85.. I think she might know because I show the HB8 IOI's and she gives me them as well so she might have told the HB6 in private but I'm not sure. She might not have though if the 6 told her she was into me first because she didn't want there to be drama. I hope that made sense hahah.

The HB6 gives me constant IOIs. I have to break eye contact with mer. She starts conversations. I try to be blunt without being like a dick. She gives hugs. I kind of just take them without any response. Its just pretty fuckin obvious.

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I like you soo much , your like a baby sister too me

nuff said

My bad. I read it as you want to get out of the friend zone not get in there.

A girl once told me that when a guy hits on her she starts calling him buddy or friend to let him know she's not into him. Call her buddy, friend, and dude. She'll figure it out.

I'm not sure that approach will work in this situation. I think that Sur-real would run the risk of causing her to escalate physically, in order to show that he shouldn't perceive her as just a little sister.

Sur-real, I would just move toward creating the reality you desire. Continue being cordial to Girl A but unencouraging of her advances, and ask Girl B out on a fun date. Don't make Girl A more of an issue than she has to be; that is, if you build her up in your mind as an obstacle, she will indeed become more of an obstacle in the real world. That said, if you really feel you need to clear her away more actively, I would suggest trying one of two things. The next time you hang out with her, try to position yourself in the opposite direction of her emotional vibe or her core values. That might get her to conclude that you're not right for her. Otherwise, suggest to her that you want to set her up with a buddy of yours. She'll be stung that you yourself don't want to go out with her, but she'll also be flattered that you think highly enough of her to want to hook her up with your friend. Just make sure you have someone who could fill that role! I've tried both these approaches a bunch of times, and they've worked for me. Hope they work for you, too.