Hola back after a long break from this forum....

Here's the deal, I had a crush on a girl, I liked her and everything, she liked me too. After talking and talking, (she's at an university far from my hometown, but in 3 months I'll be moving to the same university ), we went shopping together 2 weeks ago. After the day, I wanted to make my intentions clear, so I kissed her and she kissed me back. The evening she told me that it was unexpected but really appreciated nonetheless (I think that since it was unexpected its even better).

So, she invited me to sleep at her home last monday, we slept together, kissed a lot during the day and night, but we didn't have SEX. Some might disagree but I don't think rushing for sex is a good thing when you want a nice relationship and not only a f-close. After the day, I told her I MIGHT have feelings for you, she told you well in that case I MIGHT have feelings for you too as well .

I know my error right there, I should have made my intentions a lot more clear... But I acted as if she would have different feelings, it would hurt less cause I put the word MIGHT and not ''I HAVE feelings for you''... terrible error, I should have gone for sincerity. How do I know what she REALLY wants and how can I set the things so everything would be clear for both of us??

Thanks gentlemen