Hey guys, I have a problem. There's this girl I'm not too fond of, but like to make something out of. I've known her since september last year. She has given me IOI and I've always moved steps closer and last time we were on a canoe trip i gave her a massage, but my friend started the thing by telling he knows Tai massage. Anyway the thing is how can I phase shift while alone with her what are the key points i should pay attention to. Oh and if at a party or a tent or in a group what are good ways to isolate the target?
Another problem is with another girl I've been seeing her from time to time she likes me I like her, I tried to kiss close her. We came from a movie and i was walking her home, while she was punching me i sort of moved in and then she maybe rejected or misunderstood idk, anyway she didn't stop anything she was doing and I went home later. She knows I like her I think she likes me, so do I just tell her what's up or do i have to just kiss and fuck her at a party?

Thanks