SO this girl and i have been talking and hanging out for these last couple weeks, we kissed and stuff, and i know she really likes me, but at this point i dont know where to go. Shes been really busy, and hasnt been able to hang out lately , so every time i try to make plans i get shot down. (tommorow wont wok, etc.) Now i feel my text game is ruining this and putting me into ljbf (even though i have her sending me wakeup texts every morning).

Tl;DR, i need to get her from kissing to sex with minimal interaction. Please help, i dont wanna fuck this up.

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"Um, I'm very important. I have many leather-bound books, and my apartment smells of rich mahogany."

If you think like this you will fuck it up. Dont put too much emphasis on not wanting to lose her, just by saying this you are being needy and acting like you dont believe you will ever get another girl like this. You can, so dont take it too seriously and care less.

It is natural to feel the way you do when youre with a girl for the 1st time that you deem to be 'out of your league'. As you start dating more and more girls on this level it will become your standard and the fear of losing her wont be as strong as you KNOW you can get anyone else.

So, firstly try to put less emphasis on her. Secondly, how many times have you attempted to meet up with her? If she really does like you there will always be at least an hour or 2 during the week that she would make available for you.

Give her a txt like "i'd like to hang out with you again but ur always busy ......... so ill let you decide when we meet up next"

Do not constantly ask her to do somthing or ask "is this day ok for you ?"

IF shes txting u wake up calls, hard part is done just dont fk it up sit back n chill out, play it cool but not cold lol.

If she's shot down your plans 2-3 time already I would stop texting her as much, and don't always reply to her texts. If she does like you she might start texting you more or being curious as to why you've been less in touch. Don't be defensive or say anything about it. Next time you invite her out, don't make it just the 2 of you. Make it a text like "hey, haven't seen you in while, me and some friends are going to this fun place you should come it'll be fun." A casual invite, no pressure, no "is this time good for u pls, what about this time when r u free pls see me" bullshit. When you do see her, greet her warmly but spend time talking to your other friends (good if there are some other girls in the group) as well. Again, if she does like you she will try to gain your attention over the course of the night, by which point you can escalate smoothly and confidently and get your k-close.