Hey guys.

a great eye opener came to me when I was dozzing off in sleep. Women want Men and not boys.

The difference between Men and Boys I would say is the years of experience and it all comes down innergame. The more stable your innergame is the more it draws in the people next to you and eventually it comes down to attraction with the ladies.

As a solid man , you are strong , not possessive , caring of those around, willing to stand up for them whenever they want your help, you make sure that everyone around is in good state.Another great character is the willingness to let go of the lady.

You make sure she is happy in her life, safe , and enjoying each single bit of it. If you can help in that you would. but if your not asked you wont push yourself to prove anything to her. Honestly even if it comes down she choosing another partner over you, you are willing and able to be there for her and make sure that she is in good hands. Hell you would be able to support her and let her be with that other man.

Yes guys , why fight it ? why try to find sneaky ways in order to prove that your better than most men out there? if you are totally in solidity with yourself you will know for sure that you are you with non insecurity what so ever (no egotestical BS that your the best, you even accept others are better than you) and you are willing to accept that in life and simply ...let ...go.

Your brother in arms,
Raman.