First of all english isn't my native language.
Hi, I am an artist/actor, 30, usually no problems with women, strange to appear on PUA - BUT:

I got involved into the specific situation, in which I try to pickup a really hot and god damn rich (i mean $$$) 29y old beautie. The problem is, that we're from totally different worlds - you know, I am this handsome, skinny and well-sculpted weirdo, my social power (i mean I am kind of recognizable artist here) is shit for this kind of women, she even does not know where the national museum of contemporary art is: she's from real-estate world, BMW's, GUCCI and D&G world, no interest in movies or art at all. You know, she's single now, already broke up with a very god damn wealthy businessman, who left kind of a small fortune for her, a legacy, I presume. I successfully approached her few months ago at bar, I just loved her face and legs and overall semi-anorectic shapes, and since beggining not expecting too much from interior; in result, week later she invited me for a casual dinner. Later we had lot of things to do, but around three weeks ago things got back to the momentum - two visits in cinemas, all this positive stuff: covering her with my jacket, lot of kino from her and from me, but intentionally without kissing yet (to warmup the climax) she touches me flirtously, actually i recieve all IOI's that woman should give you, you know driving bicycles in rain, shooting 9mmeters on shooting range, and other romantic shit like that... By the way: Kind of strange, anti-masculine feeling fills you with nameless dread when a girl is driving you back home with her BMW, talking about repairs it needs to be done... In her case I just used my own perfect method, that usually driven all girls crazy - you know, making them boiling by non-reactive behavior, until she doesn't know what is going on just and they fall on you first, instead of casual and boring scenario where every man is initiating a more serious kino.

But here, for the first time it doesn't work, I am affraid I've missed the climax in my non-responsive behavior, or the girl has a really simple mind design and I've just overshoot with tactics. Last time there were an obvious climax in the car, but I left her in the perfect moment of boiling, when she started nervous and compulsive talk about a car service again (LOL), probably good moment to initiate a kiss.

I said good bye, slightly disgusted, and left the car. Later i send e her a txt with words: "Do you realize that next time, if you'll nervously start talk about car service just in the moment of saying goodbye, I'll close your lips by a long kiss? Do you realize that?"

She didn't answered it, which resulted in kind of unpleasant feelings inside of my head for another two days. So I've called her, she was really okay about the message, we talked a lot, laughing, I was sure I am still in charge, but when I tried to initiate another meeting, she started to flake for the first time. So, of course it means that I fucked up the car scene ( I exaggerated with pathological climax building, should kiss her then) so, what would you recommend to recover? She is polite and laughing, but seems to be no-responsive right now, It's kind of delicate situation right now. What's worse, I start to wonder what she's seeing in me, she's so hot and rich that she can have actually every fucking learjet owner who would like to do her in Dubai apartament. I am handsome and talented bastard, but without a car, if you know what I mean This kind of chick (empty, but with money) is an exotic thing for me that I'd love to hunt down. How to approach them? Any suggestions?

"Do you realize that next time, if you'll nervously start talk about car service just in the moment of saying goodbye, I'll close your lips by a long kiss? Do you realize that?"

you just described what you should have done... and don't give me the "boring scenario of more kino" what the hell is that...???

empty, but with money .. hmm, I found that a bit harsh, are you BETTER then her?

... well, you could try to freeze out, but most chances it's a bit too late for that

you're supposed to be an adventure for her, make yourself one, you have to re initiate contact and you stand in a good place because she knows what she's going for next time... be extremely sexual next time you meet her, and you HAVE to close next time, ro you will really loose her (although you might already did)

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

I don't like people who go for money.

Why would you want a 'empty' chick, why the fuck would you want to spend 1 minute with a empty chick who has nothing interesting to say. Just because she has cash?

I understand if you want to go for a quick lay, I would do that, if only because she is fucking gorgeous.

You seem like a interesting, intelligent, passionate & mabye a nice guy, why do you want to spend time with her. She doesn't enhence any of the qualities you have.

Also, what do you think you will achieve with a rich girl?

That she will bring you to a hotel in dubai?
That she will buy you a new car?
That she will buy bottles of crystal on a date?
That she will enhence your life?

Realize that you will never posses that money anyway. So you basicly become a big wussy, because this girl is paying for everything. She doesn't want a man like that, so will eventually lose interest and leave. This is why rich girls go with rich man.
So this money thing isn't a DLV, unless you want her to pay stuff. You must be playfull, fun & interesting (wich probably isnt that hard) to her, she must be able to look up to her man.


Anyway, that you didn't kiss her at that moment, realy sucks. She came in a anti-climax, very big one.
So your text only confirmed that anti-climax, so she didn't want to respond to it.
She probably still thinks it was lame and mabye thinks that she is putted in the friendzone.

You can try like Streetlight said, freeze her out for a little while. Because if you realy had fun and left a impression, she will reinitiate contact with you.
Basicy do what Streetlight said, next time you see her, be sexual, be fun & the most important thing of all KISS her.

Much love,

zendelo

zendelo:
it's not about money at all, I don't complain for money in my life, I am earning enough for handling most of girls, but the point is she's extremelly rich.

It's ONLY about her great, really great fuckable body and about my private refresh - I am tired of complicated chicks from artistic/actors environment, I wanted to try something really different.

And it's really interesting, when a man who thinks in high-resolution meets a girl which is definitelly lo-res minded, and with addition, bored with life because of the fortune. Actually, that's how I successfully placed a neghit during my first talk to her: "You have a very beautiful voice, but it seems really overbored". It worked, she called me few days later and it all started.

If you won't match the resolution of lo-res girl, she basically doesn't understand what are you talking about, what leads to strange and funny situations. Anyway, that fun is probably over for me now, lol.

Maybe the tactics of boiling the temperature to the impossible values does not work at all with simple chicks. Actually, I never approached any square-minded chick before, never had any interest in them, so this is my first time with such a girl.

How to reinitiate contact with a simple and bored chick?
What I am doing now is just total radio silence, if I need I can be patient as hell.

Almost forgot: around third meeting I honestly invited her to play a really small role (a role of my sister, by the way to be more pervert, the movie is autobiographical) in my full-featured movie that I am currently finishing, I am both an actor and co-director - she seemed to be really interested and happy about the idea (movie will be screened on international film festivals), but right now, after my last terrible performance and killing the climax it does not make sense to put her into the movie - I don't want to make an impression that I want to buy her in a cheap way, or I don't want to put her in the movie and later to be put into LJBF zone in reward, if you know what I'am saying.

God damn, I am too complicated for this chick.

It's a tough story you got here though. There are so many variables.

Luckily you have a great social status, girls are always subconsciously attracted to man with a high social value.
I'm almost 100% sure that girls will choose a man with high social status, above a wealthy man.

I think you should freeze her out a day or two, it depends on what kind of connection/relation you had before. But I noticed you're not a dumb guy, so you should be able to 'feel' it.

If you believe you are done waiting. Reinitiate contact with a inside joke you've had with her. Something personal. Don't ask her on a date or apologize, tell her you are doing ...(something awesome) and she should come and hop along. Ask her if she got any paperclips.

Now she can do 3 things;

Not respond (really annoying, frustrating etc.)
Responding but flaking (new information, but still sucky)
Responding & actually coming (done deal)

if she responds positive, tell her to bring one. (Don't tell why, to create a little mystery. You can use it to fix your nails or w/e)

Go on from there.

It's also important not to care too much about losing her. Because as soon she knows she is the prize, she will lose interest. You are the prize.

I find it pretty hard to give you advice on this. I don't have any experience with really rich girls, but yet I guess all girls are the same. Maybe are a little more indifferent then other girls, also because she is very hot.

I'm doubting about freezing her out until she initiates contact or freezing her out for a few days and if she hasn't reach out, initiate contact yourself.

I hope I have given you some information to create your own vision on this issue.
I also would appreciate some critics.

I'll wait 'till monday, her flaking (or maybe it was not, but it sounded flaky) was about:

friday: hen party
saturday: wedding
sunday: wedding after-party

so 3 days flake combo, maybe she's true, but I assume she's not. When I asked her two days ago how about the sunday, she said

"I wouldnt expect too much out of this sunday, it'll be wedding afterparty, you know, or I might be dying because of saturday night"

Maybe I exagerrate, but it sounds like a flaking. So I think I will wait till monday and even further, maybe full week to see if she's out of my gravity zone or not yet (she'll call). After one week I can try to safely reinitiate, but it of course can be too late, if another fucker will appear on her way, lol.

Anyway, she seemed really interested about this small role in my movie, so she should call anyway, (for a role not for me) because the time is ticking and she knows about it..

yesterday she called me unexpectedly,
seems that I am in the game again