We all know that women, play these fronts often to either Test us, (are we alpha), they had a bad day, perhaps they've had bad experiences with creepers.

Understandably Girls play these routes because WE approach....


Is it possible to play these shields before they do? or is it our job to Bust them down.

how can we make the girl earn us, i think we should have the mindset.... "can this girl keep up?" and how can we telegraph that to them. or is it better to simply Socially proof yourself?

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If you were to play these 'shields' before she tests you, do you not think you could be stopping girls from running their natural 'get a guy' process? What I mean by this, is some women's process on meeting guys is different in each situation, some will test you, some will be fairly open and willing to meet many.

So yeh I would act on an individual basis rather than generalize.

Yes your intent is very important, I would suggest that you approach every girl with "I want to see if this girl is the kind of girl im attracted to and whether she will fit well in my social circle". No expectations to take her home and sleep with her that night which girls can read fairly easily.

Let me know if that answers your question!

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This is an interesting question. Is there a way for us to size them up before they size us up (with shit tests). It is tricky as society has it that us males are required to approach, so we are forced to validate ourselves on engaging her. However this is only natural, why should she carry on talking to you if you could be just another AFC sod in the club? We need to differentiate ourselves from the rest, and we do this by qualifying ourselves to her (no matter how alpha we are, its the very alpha behavior which IS the qualification in this case, it is her judging you). I don't think there is anyway getting around this. Of course once you have busted her shields down as you say, it is of course vital to get HER qualifying herself to you. There are however ways that I can think of where males can semi-qualify themselves to her BEFORE approaching, by using indirect game. Get her attention and display good body language,social proof, preselection etc etc. Once you have displayed this, she may start qualifying herself to YOU immediately on approaching rather than the other way round, as with a cold approach (ie. when she doesnt know you exist until youre in her face).