Can a PUA really settle down?



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PostPosted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 7:44 am 
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I want to become a PUA to get better with ladies and to try and fined the one as it were. But people have told me that when your good you change and you will never settle down. Is thus true? I don't want to trick woman into likeing me asi would notthink that's good foundashion for a good long team relationship as I want to be myself. What do you guys think?


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 9:15 am 
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Just keep your original goal in mind and you should be fine.


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 10:39 am 
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Yes one can get 'addicted' to meeting new women, but thats only because its fascinating and fun. Most PUA's have a genuine interest for people in general, they are social machines. No harm in that. If you want to settle down, then you will. As Javs mentioned, go about it based on what you want at the end of the day. And no you will not transform into someone that is incapable of settling down, that is a tad far-fetched.


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 10:54 am 
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That's ok then. I have just come out of a 5 year thing with my ex. I'm 28 but need to get back in the dateing game. I was just worried I would not settle down as that's what I really want to do. I was worryied I would become something which I would not like. End if the day I would like a family and all that with the wright woman.

Call it ducked up but I almost as if time is running out. So many of my buds are married or have been with there other half for years.


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 11:06 am 
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Interesting I am in the exact same position as you! Same age and same ex duration (5-6 yrs), honestly there really is no rush, it feels like my life has just begun. Have fun, you're still young mate. I also plan to settle down (most do), when the time is right though (and this differs for everyone, just do not feel rushed because of your age, that is the wrong mindset to have)


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 11:42 am 
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I guess it's hard to get out of that mind set. I mean I would not want to be say 50 when my kid starts school. You see what I mean?


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 11:46 am 
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I do see what you mean, but a plane could crash into your house tomorrow, there are better things to be concerned with, like enjoying the now. If you have a goal to settle down, focus on it and follow it, it will happen. The skills you learn on this forum and the new man you become will fast track the process of finding your wife. Dont feel pressured mate, you have time.


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 9:16 pm 
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Become a master womanizer and you'll worry about settling down then...

Don't look too far into the future.

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