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PostPosted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 1:53 am 
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Guys I need some UBER PUA help with a 10. The post is long, but I'm kinda stuck so bare with me please, after all I'm still a newbie. All help is welcomed and thanked :)

First of all I would like to say hello to the whole forum community, I've been reading this site and I love it. However this is the first time I post, therefore I'm just going to give you a fast intro about me (I know this isn't the place for intros but I believe one is necessary).
Ok so I'm a 17 year old (18 this month) guy, I live in Mexico blah blah blah. I do not consider myself an AFC but I must admit I've never really tried getting girls (mostly because the girls I knew were...well... -8s or so...seriously, with a few exceptions). I am very cynical but I like to have a good time, Im usually the one who cracks the jokes, etc. So, I got introduced to The Game by accident at some point during last year and was fascinated though I didn't really implement anything from it until a little while ago.

ANYWAY...

I met this girl a while ago (probably before december...not sure), in a friend's house. She was with another guy but for some odd reason when I introduced myself she started hugging me and stuff (I think because of another guy with my same name...was kinda wtf moment). So yeh nothing rly happened there. Then a couple of days after some guys were talking about her yadda yadda, point being is she was really pretty, but I didn't have enough inner game at that point so all we did was hugs..plus she was with another guy.

Then, a looong time after (srsly like 3 weeks ago), she threw a goodbye party for a guy who was leaving the country at her house. I went there with a couple of friends and chatted a little with her. I had a lot more confidence and inner game, no AA but well it was her house and her parents were there rofl...didn't seem like she was going to let go.

Couple of days after she posted one of these weird song verses in her facebook status and I 'liked' it. A while after she opens me on FB chat and we start talking about her status and stuff. We talked about normal stuff like music and hobbies for around 2hrs maybe, not sure and that was it for that day.

Finally, a couple of days ago, some friends and I went to a girl's Bday party and she was there. At first I must admit I was kinda 'following' her (like glancing at her a lot and stuff) and stuff but then I stopped and went away for a while (cat string theory I guess, I don't know lol). Eventually we started talking a while and stuff, I did a bunch of Cocky funny and a lot of kino. Eventually we hugged and kissed a couple of times blah blah blah, we bombarded me with IOIs, but then I had to leave (though she wanted me to stay so I guess I was on the right track). Finally I get home and I get a call from a friend who was still at the party to talk about it, now she was also there with a couple of friends and I was on speaker, yet I'm glad to say I didn't blew it :).

Next day I get an FB message from the same guy saying that I have a chance with her and that she said she felt something different while being with me blah blah blah yadda yadda yadda.

So, I'm gessing everything is going ok, but I seriously don't know where to go from here. This girl is seriously a fucking 10, no joke and I don't want to mess this one up. Any ideas what to do next?

Btw I might see her again tomorrow night but its not 100% guaranteed. And once again sorry for the stupidly long post.


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 3:02 am 
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No problem with the long post.

The problem is with the attitude. You're afraid to mess it up and lose her. Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to... suffering.

Ok, not really in this case, but the idea is the same. Your fear betrays inner weakness. If you don't get rid of it, you can't hold onto her. Your subconscious will do its best to fuck it up for you.

Honestly, your game so far is fine. Just drop the fear of losing her, and go for it.

Number close if you haven't already. I'm guessing you're still in high school, so just meet up with her at some party and go for a close. If you want to move for a relationship from there, then I would suggest looking in the "relationships" section.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 3:10 am 
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Alright, I completely agree with the fear part, its gotta go.

However I'm still not sure about what attitude to have. Do I keep the C&F stuff, do I slow down a little? Thats where I'm really clueless SPAM.


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