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I was thinking can a PUA really get any girl he wants? I'm guess they have to think he is hot etc to go for him. So this then makes me ask someone who is not gifted with stunning looks howcan they get the girl? Is it this whole building up attraction first? I guess even good PUA can't make woman look and drool with only there looks or can they?
When I first met my boyfriend, I didn't even look at him in a sexual way. I was still having issues with my ex boyfriend but then I met one guy who I thought was unbelievable looking (he ended up being a massive douche bag when we got together - no game at all. BIGGEST AFC turned me right off!!!) \
But anyways. Back to my now boyfriend - let's call him S (for sexy =) - he knew I was seeing D (douche bag) but he also knew that D was not the right one for me and didn't challenge me mentally. Therefore S knew he had to use his superior game to win me over. He started cold reading me, doing PUA psychology tests on me, escalating kino when talking, he would LISTEN to me when I spoke about things, he would mentally challenge me and disagree with me - (D (and most other guys I had ever met) never disagreed with me out of fear I would leave them) and slowly, we grew very close resulting in multiple hour long conversations on the phone.
One evening, we were both stuck in the city due to road closures and he suggested we get some dinner while we wait for the road to re-open. I agreed and was excited by this. He made me laugh and laugh the whole night and we didn't end up leaving each other until about 4am (the road closures had finished about 8pm!) As I was about to drive off, I was expecting him to k-close me. He didn't. I left wondeirng what was wrong with me - why he hadn't kissed me. We went out a few more times and he always left me hanging and wanting more. When he FINALLY kissed me, I never wanted him to stop and we have now been together 2 years.
Therefore, yes, I do think that a PUA can get any girl he wants if he has the right game to get her. S knew he wanted me from the moment he met me and he bid his time and got me in the end and I am not going anywhere. I absolutely love him to bits and he is the most attractive person to me in the world.
I hope this helps you a little bit.