Having had help over here these last couple of weeks, i have started transferring my confidence from the rest of my life to my interactions and mentality with women.

I believe more or less everyone born has the potential to do great things, we have something we are good at and its up to us to find out what it is.

I'm a status man, i may seem like an arrogant person but tbh i'm just very comfortable with who i am. I am from a wealthy family and i'm at a very good university doing a very good degree. I look like a wealthy man.

I use to believe that being 1.72m limited me before i came on here. However, that logic is stupid, so many people have totally owned life at my height, people i know in real life and celebrities. Taylor Lautner, Tom Cruise, Neil Strauss, whoever. And all of these people had to start from somewhere.

I think if i believe i am a high status person like i truly do now its been actually transferring into my conversations. Whether you're good looking, good at sport, or wealthy we all have strong points to be proud about and it shows. If people don't like this then fine, but i'm comfortable with who i am.

Like this week for instance, when i was talking to a girl, the conversation was dying down and she wasn't very interested because i wasn't really passionate and just flirting around like i usually do. But when she asked what i do i said 'well, i'm taking an internship in London for a Law firm this summer' , her eyes lit up and i spoke passionately about what i loved doing , and its because i'm happy with my life that it makes me attractive.
The babes, funnily enough, are just people who are looking into it if that makes sense, but ultimately i am what matters because i live with my conscience for 24 hours a day.


What Neil Strauss says is correct, that it is wrong to be intimidated by their physical beauty (especially the hottest girls) because if you yourself have a better life then thats what counts, be the status man and work hard in life for your harvest.

So... you posted this to brag? Nothing wrong with that, I do it all the time. Do you have an actual quote for what you have Strauss saying at the end? It sounds kind of condescending. Pretty women shouldn't be beneath you either.

I understand what you're saying. Most people didn't have to work for their good looks, so they shouldn't be put on a pedestal since they never lifted a finger. But shit man, what work did you do to be born into a wealthy family that could afford a large option of universities? That's where you sound pompous. If you're going to brag, make it about your own talents like getting into that internship in London, otherwise you're no better than the people who put themselves above others just for being born pretty.

I'm not posting to brag. I just want to keep the people who have helped me updated.

My confidence is low without the knowledge that i have things going for me that girls are going to be attracted to.

I'm working very hard to improve my skills, remember that i wasn't allowed to talk to girls until i was 15 (i'm 19 now) because of my very strict parents. It's left me kinda fucked up. I've talked to very few girls in my life.

Well, piece of unsolicited advice, tying up your confidence in your ability to attract girls is going to be your own undoing. No matter what anyone here says, at the end of the day, women do have free will and you can't control them. I always get a confidence boost when I get female attention and I still feel shitty when I get rejected. There are just days where PUA shit won't flow together, it happens to everyone.

But my confidence is totally tied into myself like a loop. I love it when I have a good work out, when I do anything artistic, and when I say/do something I think is hilarious. This is what makes my confidence rock solid, no one can take any of that away from me because I don't count on anyone to build it up for me.