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PostPosted: Mon Jun 07, 2010 9:07 am 
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I hadn't really thought about it until recently but I came to the realization that I am more successful with girls that are HB8+ than I am with girls in the 6 to 7 range. I'm not complaining but I am perplexed by the situation. This happens to me both online and in person. I've been opened by 10s yet brushed off rudely by 6s.

Any theories? I'll give some of my background. I only started really reading up on PUA stuff recently so I'm talking about experiences I've had with little to no knowledge of the game. I generally talk to all types in the same way. The hotter girls seem more likely to find me smart, funny and good looking. I know my looks have helped me attract girls before but can good looks actually work against you with the girls that are below an 8? I also should mention I've put very little energy towards dating and meeting girls in the past so I can come across as very indifferent to the girls I do meet regardless of how hot they are. I've read that girls find that behavior attractive but maybe 8s+ find it more so?


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 07, 2010 9:44 am 
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A combination of intentions, enthusiasm and vested interest.

Your intention for girls 8+ i would suggest would be to get to know them, for 7 and less it probably isn't.

Your enthusiasm again shows a similar pattern as well as your vested interest.

Women have a magical way of reading these things. And it's amazing how such a slight difference it can be! Intentions being the most important. But usually its the opposite and it's guy's intent being to fuck the girl from the start that puts them off!

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 07, 2010 10:01 am 
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Most of the methods are engineered to get high quality girls. Those girls have high self esteem that you bust with negs/teasing/cocky funny.

The "lower quality" girls are more subtle and have lower self esteem. They take negs/teasing/cocky funny not to so well... and you get blown out. In my opinion you shouldn't attack their status in any way or DHV yourself. Something between AFC game and PUA game.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 07, 2010 6:45 pm 
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You're probably just more psychologically comfortable with 8+'s.

I don't have a straightforward explanation, since I don't know about your personal history, etc...

But there are 2 reasons that you would do better with 8+'s: 1) Because you game them differently, due to how you feel about them psychologically or 2) They perceive your game differently. The second one fits with the previous comments. The first one just differs on a person-to-person basis, but usually it's the other way around.

So, gratz.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 08, 2010 1:33 am 
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Being new to the game your thinking it's all good but it's not: ALL GAME IS NOT CREATED EQUAL. You are probably treating all the girls exactly the same so A HB6 needs more attention than a HB10(who admires your indifference) because the HB10 is indifferent to all attention because she always gets it without earning it based on her looks.

A good example of the difference in gaming is, HB6 want to be told their beautiful because their mildly attractive and if you said that (don't) it indicates that your attracted to her as a whole, personality included. it's chick validation meanwhile a HB10 doesnt want to hear a word about her looks she tired of it coming up she wants to be validated for her ideas and abilities not her smoking hot body. :roll:

As for looks if your considered highly attractive guy you have to game down to HB6 because they'll be intimidated by your overall package looks and social sophistication. Don't neg any girl under 7 with a backhanded neg (think the old real fingernails bit) but you can tease playfully but not on her appearance


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