Ok so my friend told me she liked me a while back, I thought nothing of it. Now she is asking me if I am going to a concert, I told her no because I didn't like the bands there. I could talk through Facebook, get her number, and text like everyone else. I need some advice to make me a badass. I am not good with girls and I blush around girls I like, I am trying those affirmations and changing my brain. But that stuff takes time and if I wait too long I will lose my chance. My friends having a party on thursday for getting out of school but she isn't going. This isn't oneitis either, I don't think of her as special consciously, but my fucked up hardwiring makes me think she is subconsciously. Whatever, what should I do? Oh and we don't go to the same schools, but we will next year.

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Oneitis IS subconscious. So it's oneitis.

Anyway, if you have fucked up hardwiring, don't go for her at all. Sure, you could probably learn a couple routines or whatever in the next week or so that would let you snag her number. There's even the possibility that you might sleep with her. But, she's just going to break up with you, and you'll feel even worse afterward.

If you aren't good with girls, get good with girls. It will take a while, so you'll lose this girl. If you don't have oneitis, this won't be a problem. There will be plenty of women in your future. Just work on it now.

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I'm just hoping I could at least get some practice out of it, or have an epiphany as to why I care what people think about me. This girl is probably a 7 or 8, and she has braces, but with out them she is easily and 8 or 8.5. And I don't normally get opportunities likes this.

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Thats an issue, If u dont have oneitis yet u will get it bc u said u dont usually get opportunities like this. it usually seems out of reach out of your league and this is gonna cuz u to have oneitis. If you really think you dont have oneitis already then go for the f-close

There is not a one step to be a "badass". Being a badass will not really get chicks, its much more than that. Go out and learn the things on this site. This is not a simple answer to give.
Also if u actually like this girl just wait, keep in casual contact till u know you dont need badass and u know u can get her

Sorry I worded that bad, I meant more of an alpha male/player thing than badass. Like something I can do to make myself a little more interesting that pertains to this specific situation.

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