One of the most common things I see on a program is guys leaving the set too early. The most common reason, according the guy, is that he ran out of things to say. In reality you didn’t have the balls to do what you wanted to do. You didn’t have the balls to lead the interaction to the next level.

You didn’t grab her by the hand and dance with her. You didn’t try to kiss her. You didn’t try to bring her over and introduce her to your friends. You did nothing physical. Instead you relied on your words to try and attract her, when in reality what you say doesn’t mean shit, only what you do.

Since she didn’t take the initiative to do it, you left. In reality you left the entire outcome up to her. You may have seemed cool coming in, but you left it at that. It’s very common to have a guy approach a girl with high energy for the first minute, then fade off into a boring normal guy. This is because he relies on his words to keep that energy going. The interaction becomes intellectual, rather than leading with the energy your body creates.

If she’s being boring, get physical with her, get her energy flowing. Get her physically invested in you. HAVE FUCKING FUN.

It’s ridiculous how many times a guy will approach a girl, get her smiling, and then leave. A lot of guys are trying to do a picture perfect pickup, when there is no such thing. The only thing you can do is bring out your absolute best. Bring out the confidence you have, the fun you have stored inside you and the balls you have attached to you.

Get physical with her before it comes to the point where you decide to leave. I have this on autopilot; I do what I want when I want. I left a few examples above, so start trying shit. There is no such thing as running out of things to say, because all that matters is what you do. A person is not perceived through their actions, but their words.

It’s time to start doing rather than saying.

Rex

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Excellent post, sir.

This goes along with a big message that's been traveling through the community lately: the whole "pride" thing, thinking that you're better than you are.

You leave the interaction, but you think you didn't because she didn't show IOI's or you were higher value or she wasn't that hot or giant flying jellyfish attacked.

The excuses suck. So do you. (Not you, Rex, just the imaginary person I would address with this)

Now no more excuses, get the results.

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