OK,

So i have just split from my Ex about 4 months ago...

I can safely say I have "lost" my mojo and all my confidence through the relationship...

I do not want her back as she strayed and I completely except that and i want to move on with my life and become confident again and attractive to the opposite sex again...

I am lost were to start....

I dont have a problem speaking to women that i already know, its just making the approach on new attractive women that i have an issue with...

I am working on my looks on terms of going to the gym and making myself fit and healthy again, but I completely understand that personality and game is what attracts the women...

Were do i start to become myself again?

Years ago I had ladies all around me until i fell for her and i pulled myself from the social scene as a result and now my social life is fairly minimal and I only really meet women who are either drunk at bars, or in work....I spend most of my time at home on my own at the moment and sometimes dont see anybody for days if im not working...

Im 24 and shouldnt feel lonely like this. Thing is i live 300 miles from my family, and many of my liocal friends are dope heads who dont want to do anything bar smoke dope...I dont want that life so I stay away most of the time...

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