I left a comment on a girls facebook picture. I froze her out for a while now. 3 weeks? I don't really care about her, but how would you guys respond to this?

If you don't care why bother responding?

What was the comment? Could it have been something she wouldn't want other people to see? Has she said anything to you?

Is commenting on someone's facebook a proper freeze out? (That's a serious question for anyone else answering, I've been confused on that point myself...)

I mean, she's attractive. Hell I'd even friend her because she has high social value and lots of girl friends. I decided to contact her again through simple comments. She seems really stuck up to be honest. I just want to know how someone would handle a girl deleting a comment.

She has said nothing to me.

Honoustly, dropping a random comment on some girl's facebook page might just freak her out. And if it's a message to be embarrased about...who wouldn't delete it?

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she prolly didnt like the comment you made w/e it was. But she did not also think that deleting the comment would make you upset in any way, and if you do get upset there is a lot to learn.
Just ignore it. dont comment on anything else tho.
If you see her in person talk to her but dont bring the incident up cuz of course it makes it look like you care.

I think she deleted the comment so her ex b/f wouldn't see it. She texted me shortly after all happy to talk to me.

Like you said, best thing to do is ignore it. Good advice.

And this is why I think Facebook sucks.

I have one, but it's only for friends. I only have like 60 friends, and they're mostly people I talk to on at least a somewhat regular basis.

Any girl that I'm talking to, or just starting to date, doesn't get on my Facebook. I like to keep that semi private, nobody that I've just met and am maybe interested in has any business seeing my FB page.

I just it's a bad idea, people get the wrong idea about things, or a comment gets deleted and you get freaked out about it, or even comments left by other people can freak you out.

Plus, if you're dating more than one girl, do you really want them seeing your FB? Now you have to explain all the "Hey cuite" or "had a great time last night" comments.

Or, on the other foot, if SHE moves on, then you get to see her "oh my new BF is so great blah blah blah" comments.

I actually just met a girl who doesn't have a FB, I'm actually really glad that she's not into that stuff.

This pisses me off! I think it's something to do with the female social value complex.

i.e She tags all her most attractive pictures on facebook and deletes the unattractive ones, and she prunes her homepage of comments that are weird or could be interpreted the wrong way. Bleh. It's like a bowerbird making a nest.

... I guess we gotta deal with it.

Bro, lol. What the fuck you crying about, man?


I delete comments I don't like from chicks all the time, anything that I don't like on my profile, or I feel is cluttering it, or anything un-wanted, I delete.



You still haven't said what you posted? Was it something cheesey/lame/gamey or 'neg' like?

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this is super important and you should send her lots of whiny messages asking her why she did it. make sure you send at least 5 a day calling her a bitch and asking her lots of awkward questions. text her too if you have her number. make sure she understands how upset you are and how this is a huge deal to you.