Ok, so this chick wants my penis.....
So I get to talking to her and I find out.....
That she expects me to go 20mins non stop.....AND
she claims it takes her forever to come EVEN when she does it herself.....

all this info just turn me off her.....BAD?

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?

Why is that a turn off, 20 minutes isn't very long if the sex is good, my ex took like 45 minutes minimum, that shouldn't be a problem if she's hot enough to keep you interested

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Even the most naturally gifted can learn to become better.

Well, I don't fuck a lot honestly. I bust at inconsistent times, i'll go for 45mins 1 time, then 4 mins the next.....I just don't want to disappoint.

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?

Worrying about dissapointment usually results in that.

My advice:

Don't worry, go for it, enjoy the moment, please yourself, and you will please her.

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Been there, done it, oh and still doing it!

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my patented technique for keeping hold of your little fishy friends

fuck thinking about other things, to me that is like the big white elephant in the room.

as your kissing her picture your perfect girl, and i mean an 11 on the 1-10 scale. picture EVERYTHING about this girl and how tight she is etc.

when you start smashing the one you are actually kissing she will seem almost a disappointment physically and you WILL last longer!

also, and for more than just this reason, WEAR A JACKET!

Dude,

Dont stress about it. Just go in, perform the works.

If she turns out unhappy big boohoo for her.

Greetings,

Wesley

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True communication is communion―the realization of oneness, which is love! ~ Eckhart Tolle

You don't have to go 20 min not stop, finish, then play, and start over

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

I love this post man!

Anyway, stop thinking about just your dick. Use the rest too. Youd be amazed how much you can please her without even using it. Plus, change positions and shit often, it is fun and you will last longer...

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Thinking of other subjects during intercourse doesn't work and it's not enjoyable. Why would you want to be thinking about baseball or something else when you're having sex.

You don't have to go for 20 min. to please a woman. Women and men are very different when it comes to sex. Women love the build up. The tension. They love foreplay. Use these in your repertoire to get her off without going for 20 minutes. Remember, for women it's all about quality, not quantity. If you can get her off in 5 min she won't care how fast you blow your load.

Can I suggest trying a sex toy for her? A little vibe can go a long way-- and you don't have to go for 20 minutes straight. A lot of women have a hard time reaching orgasm-- some women have to really concentrate and be into the guy.

It's a lot harder for younger girls, too, like under 25. They have issues with their bodies, etc, etc.

All I have to say is... foreplay. Turn off your cellphones so there's no interruptions, and take a shower, eat her out, whatever. It's not that big of a deal. If she's into it, you can even start with a sex toy like a vibe or a dildo and make her suck you off at the same time.

Most women are freakier than you can imagine, but you have to bring the confidence to the bedroom. A little champagne and orage juice helps loosen things up, too.

Plus, I think 20 minues is a long time for a guy to go straight without stopping. But it's not a long time to have sex if you do other stuff, like oral and heavy petting.

Marie

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Marie
I married my PUA!

You need to relax her, foreplay tease her a bit, locate her g spot and rub it down




http://www.eioba.com/files/user512/g_spot_dia.jpg

thank you guys.....really.

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?