This girl I meet a awhile ago (about a month) my roommate got her number when I was talking to her, then she ejected because he was starting to hover over him. He has a girlfriend and he wanted to help me, my game was on that night and I did well except for the number close.

Last night, she comes to our house party we were hosting. He comes in with her by her side, giving me HUGE HV she sees me and just smiles and goes "remember me?" I go "yeah, how are you." she gives out the hand shake, I give her one then I go nah you need a hug. right infront of her friends and I don't give them a glance. (thats how I see I fucked up.) after that she wasn't there for long, she bought a keg cup, then about 20 min later I didn't see her there...

I'm really only worrying about this because I do like this girl, we have had a convo and I've kinoed and all that stuff. Just feel Its a oneitis and I'm gonna fuck this up.

Advice?

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-footsy

You screwed up by not talking to her friends. You said it was your party so I would have expected you to talk to everyone there. I find I get the oneitis quite a bit too. Just go clubbing/sarging, if you see her again, act cool. If not, who cares, don't worry about it.

Try to keep your mind of off her. You're probably kicking yourself in the nuts right now but just forget about what happened. Do the things you would normally do and it'll be alright. She's probably already forgotten what happened so if you meet her again, don't mention that day. Make it a fresh start.

Goodluck

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Optimistic?

hes right you should have talked to all her friends, have introductions w/handshakes and try to bring them into conversations,
1.First this will make them comfortable to be at your party and make them feel that they are having a good time, not forcing their friend to leave.
2. They will feel that you are a good guy and allow their friend to do w/e she wants w/you and not cockblock you

it is huge DHV and helps you a lot if you talk to the friends, possibly ignore her a bit for a little.

Win the friends, win the girl.

-Sleye