No im not talking about the size of your dick, leave that info to yourself. im talking about your length, your human size.

Im not tall: just 1, 72 meter. The avarage length of men is 1,80 meter. i'm 18 and sceptical that i will grow more.

I find it difficult to PU and being alfa when i'm one of the smallest in the group.

Yeah i know, people say that it's all about your own confidence, if you are funny or not, and looks don't matter that much, but still:

People notice taller people much faster than smaller ones. as a smaller guy, i have to try as 10 times harder then taller guys. taller guys are more confident because they look over everybody. being tall is being more intimidating. taller people will naturaly be more of a leading person than smaller ones. it's like nature's law, and it's also a fact: women love tall guys. people look up to taller persons, litteraly and figuratively.

so they have a huge advantage. they will get the HB9 faster. not only because they're more see like an alfa or a leader, but because they're still taller than them. most HB9s are pretty tall. it's also true that taller girls are estimated hotter, pretty by most people. that's why models are tall. for me finding the perfect girl of my size is hard.

its way more difficult to game girls who are taller than you are. they look down to you, you look up to them. it takes a lot of balls and skills to game them, while for a taller guy, this just might be cake.

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neil strauss is only 5'4

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You're shooting yourself in the foot. I'm 5'5 and love it (there's something nice about being eye level with a girl, it's more romantic/sensual, and I've had women tell me this A LOT).

If you don't make it an issue (which you shouldn't), they won't. Just hit on them like you would if you were 5'0, 6'0 or 8'0 =P Doesn't matter.

Wrong. Lets get somethings straight here. Women generally love tall guys, by that they generally mean they like guys that are between 5'10" to 6'3" in height. The average height of a US male is 5'9" by the way. Secondly most tall guys are not leaders, but "leaders". As it is society that is making us "leaders". Its up to the guy to become an actual leader. There is bit of a difference here. Next not all tall guys are confident and if they are they are not that confident. How would you feel every day knowing you are taller than others around you? I doubt you be confident because of this. Tall guys either have to embrace their height or let their insecurity show.
Wrong again. If you think most HB9 are tall you need to get out more. There are loads of girls that are HB9 that are not 5'10". Megan Fox the girl from the first two Transformer movies is only 5'6". There are also HB9 models that are not 5'10" either. Have you ever been to a car show like Import Nights? The models there are more like 5'5" and shorter.
Wrong for a third time. Ya it takes balls for a shorter guy to game a taller girl. But you know what? Game a girl that is taller than you SHOWS YOU HAVE CONFIDENCE. Most girls don't mind dating a guy that is not that much shorter than them. And the tall ones, ie the 5'10" ones tend to have to date short guys anyway due to lack of taller guys for them to date.

Shyler, the reason you are having problems is because you are NOT secure in your height and lack any confidence. Do you think things are any easier for tall guys? I am 6'6". How easy do you think I have it? Do you think all I have to do is say "hello" and thats it? Height like looks helps you get the girl but in no way is a fore sure one shot killer. I still have to run game to close the girl. And have you ever consider that there are girls out there that are 5'0" to 5'5" that may not date a guy of my height due to how tall I am? As there are girls like this out there. I have run into them more than once. Most of these girls only want a guy not that much taller than them as they won't want a guy to tower over them all the time.

You know what?

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You guys are damn right.

But still, it's a kind of frustration for me. I just had some bad experiences with the fact that i'm small, on which i'm not going into detail right now. it just feels like people take you less serious if you're small. therefor i have to put a lot of concentration in my body language and tonality.

Yeah it's pretty much a confidence issue. But it's just not that easy to say like "you know what? today i choose to not care about my length anymore."

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No, you need to put more effort into being confident and secure with your height. You can work on body language and tonality all day long but if you are not confident and secure in your height you are just going to end up right where you are now.
You should be more saying "I am secure with my height". Its far better to own your height than not care about it as it makes you a lot more confident and secure in your height.