Women seem to be scared by the lone wolf. But who blames them, he might be crazy? When a group of men meet a group of women it's an indication of sanity.

Does one need to get friends to be able to get a partner?

Well, friends do give you high value and social status, but there are some PUA's who go pick up sometimes alone. they come alone in a bar ad start opening, talking to and seducing people.

But you need a lot of confidence and (social) skills to do this. i think that even a lot of people on this forum might fright of the idea!

but the newbie mission, when you go to a shopping mall and start talking to people to get over approach anxiety, is for starters. but this isn't really pick up

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You WANT to make a change.
You CAN make a change.
You WILL make a change.

Ambitious to be succesfull => Shyler

If u are comfortable and confident and don't feel like it's a big deal when u approach a woman you will subcommunicate this to her with your voice, body language etc.

If you feel weird and awkward about it she will pick up this vibe from you and it will be weird and awkward.

The best way to overcome this is to get out of your comfort zone and just put yourself in these situations over and over. Try new things and persist with it and i believe you will change your view on the situation. You will start to feel confident you know what to do, what to say etc. When you start feeling comfortable with it women will sense this in you and also be more comfortable around you.

this has been true with me anyway,

cheers,

wowo

Not really, but having friends indicates you have some level of social intellect.

I sarge alone pretty often!

Not a problem! If you have problems, find people (guys) to talk to in the club.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I can't go to the club, then I would be able to meet women easily...

I can't go because that I'm a minority, and minorities need escorts in te country I live in.