Settling with girls who like you already?



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PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 4:13 am 
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I've been dying to just bag an 8 or 9 after getting into this PUA stuff, which is all pretty new to me. I haven't been in a lot of relationships, and the ones I have been in were pretty lame to say the least. I feel inexperienced. The problem is that I've always been able to get some 5s-7s into me, but never took them, because I wanted that higher quality. What I realized though is that I should probably just settle for what's falling into my hands right now and get some more flirting and dating experience so I don't feel lost when I get what I'm aiming for.

Should I just settle for now?


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 3:22 am 
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No opinions on this? I figure you guys would have a good view on this.


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 4:54 am 
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Dude im honestly in the same position and i have no idea what is the best solution. Settling seems kind of like a bad idea. There is two girls in the 5-7 range also that like me, but i don't really have any desire to fuck them. I need to be like super attracted to a girl in order to want too. You can still practice game on these girls to see what dose and doesn't work though for like flirting etc.


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What I realized though is that I should probably just settle for what's falling into my hands right now and get some more flirting and dating experience so I don't feel lost when I get what I'm aiming for.

Should I just settle for now?
Do not settle. It isn't fair on these poor girls who will be thinking that you have decided to be with them when you are basically just using them. They deserve to be with someone who actually cares about them.

By all means, be friends with them and maybe even try your routines on them but make sure they know that you are just their friend.

Another thing you can do is go out sarging and practice your routines on random 5s - 7s and see how you go and where you need to improve and what works and doesn't.

You probably alreayd know this but gaming 5 - 7s is slightly different to gaming 8 - 10s. Generally, 5 - 7s are probably not a goods idea to neg too much as they probably don't get much attention from males so if you're negging them, they might not get it and get offended. You can throw one or two in like "hey you got something in your teeth but don't worry it looks cute"

Whereas with the 8 - 10s, you can tend to be a bit harsher as they are used to guys fawning all over them. Tell her she can't dance or her dress doesn't suit her body type or something. I am used to guys fawning all over me so the way my boyfriend got me was by being a bit mean to me and not acting like I was all that. He made me believe he could live without me which made me want him even more. Other AFC guys used to make me believe they couldnt live without me which bored me to no end.

PUA is not about hurting women though, it's about making their lives better - remember that.

Hope this helps a little.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 6:31 am 
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If you need to ask people if you should settle with a girl then it is probably for the best that you don't. If you have some attraction for her take it slow and get to know here; maybe you are actually interested in her. Other then that until you have doubts just stay friends and good luck


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So you are thinking of settling with someone because you feel inadequately equipped to get the higher quality women.

Kind of a shame, since we're all here to give you advice on how to get the higher quality women.

I think that says it all.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 3:18 pm 
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I don't feel inadequately equipped, and I realize there's tons of people around for me to ask from help from, but I want to develop enough natural game that I won't have to ask you for help every move I make.

It's not like I'm planning on completely leading these girls on then breaking their hearts, but I'd like to not feel like I have no idea what I'm doing in relationships when I'm dating a 10 a year from now, or whatever.

But you guys still probably answered my question. Here's to hoping I don't look like an idiot when I get someone else.


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