| i've got the feeling that you're realy depressed. you're just thinking "my life sucks, im doomed. noone understands this, understands me!". you want to be the forgotten loser. you're just hoping that if you just cry long enough, someone special will have compassion with you and come to you.
THAT WON'T HAPPEN
YOU WANT PUSSY? YOU REALLY WANT PUSSY? OFCOURSE YOU WANT! WELL, ACCEPT IT OR NOT, THEN U'RE ONE OF US.
AND THEN YOU HAVE TO WORK, JUST LIKE ANYONE ELSE. NOTHING GOES FOR NOTHING
maybe, a firtst step might be: GO FIND A PSYCHOLOGUE. really. im not saying this to be rude. you' seem mentally, emotionaly, socially fucked up. a psychologue will help you.
Secondly, if you're emotionally more stable, THINK rationally about why you have NO FRIENDS. reread posts, compare them with posts of succesfull people. think "why do i get negative rep and others positive?" compare them.
thirdly, thik about what you really want in your life (other then pussy). do you want to be a musician? do you want to do a sport? always tought about bunjee jumping? you want to be that socially, succesfull guy? just brainstorm, right everything down, and look at it and think of it.
then, go out. do something about it. if you found out you want to play guitare, go find a music school where you can learn it. you want a job? go search for it. you want to be social? join a club. do it step by step, but be disciplined, motivated and positive.
you might be nagative as hell, because you think it's unfare that there are PUA's getting laid so often.
you think life is so easy for us huh. well, i tell you: LIFE IS NOT FAIR. it never was. and it isn't for PUAs. have you ever tought why this thing called PU ever exist? that's because there people desperate like you. if all the guys in the world would get equally HB9s, there would be no site, no underground community called PU, because no one would need it. you think we're all naturals here on this site? we're not, otherwhise we wouldn't be here. naturals might think this is pathetic. but instead, THERE ARE A LOT OF PEOPLE WHO NEEDS THIS. everyone, noob or mPUA, needs this. we're full of unanswered questions. noob or mPUA, we all get frustrated or depressed once.
We are all BORN EQUALLY. which means you're not above us, we're not above you. which means you're not born a natural player, we're not born a natural player, none is born a natural player. We all had to GROW to it. For some, it was easier, the so called naturals and alfas, but for the most, it isn't.
So, we ALL had to learn to be social, to PICK UP. we all had to TAKE RISKS. we all went through a difficult period, we all were hurt in our life. Some people might have learn it fast, but there are people who had to STRUGGLE FOR MONTHS OR YEARS.
Come'on? what do you have to lose? i know you want to be succesfull, i know you want to be social, i know you want pussy, i know you want to be a PUA.
So, PUT YOUR PRINCIPLES ASIDE AND DO SOMETHING!!!
i hope sincerly you understand, no offence _________________ You WANT to make a change.
You CAN make a change.
You WILL make a change.
Ambitious to be succesfull => Shyler
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