Get a hobby
Man, to have success with a girl you do need some success in your life as well. Give her a reason to want you, you need to compete with all the other of hundreds of guys.
I found i was a boring computer geek this time last year, so i went travelling, now when i meet girls i start talking about that...
girl: what do you do?
me: computer geek
girl: sound fun :/ nice meeting you
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girl: so what do you do
me: guess? :p (they love games)
girl: larlarlar
me: well iv actually been travelling the last 6 months around the world, been here there and every fucking where
girl: o really? wow iv always wanted to do that! (she admires what youve done)
me: i take each day as it comes, live life to the full, i live a very very wild lifestyle

sorry what do you do? work in an office... o that sounds fun! LOL
That is my kinda approach anyway. Awesomeness