I was with this girl last night. No sex just hung out. I've been clubbing with her for a wile and today I cut the BS and told her that she needs to talk to me out side of the club so I can get to know her.

I called her and told her I wanted to come over and make her tea.

:After Bla Bla:

She said I was making her nervous, and I told her 'What is there to be nervous about...bla bla.'

I felt resistance all when I was getting the address as if she just shut down. A robot giving me her info.

She agreed to me coming over tonight.

Question:
When I get there, should I make her tea at her place?
Or should I change my mind and we could walk to the coffee shop not far from her place?

Definetley need to build some comfort man, you should just tell her to meet you somewhere so she doesnt feel all stressed out or nervous... Make her want to come to you. (DHV) Flirt thru text/phone so shes more apt to go anywhere.

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Coffee shop,

Build more comfort at a public place, then afterwards go or make a time bridge into making tea at her place.

She is nervous because she feels she doesn't know you enough.

You guys are right. For the record, I blue it and she's mad at me now.

Just a bit after I posted this she called me and told me she was busy. So if you are reading this right now and you made the same mistake I did. Sack some of your game and call the girl before she calls you, to change the location or day you meet even.

We got to talking and I ended up gushing on the phone about her BS, this wasn't good. I have bad phone game. She is now mad at me and I'm moving on to the next thing.

However, I do think that it would have been better to get layed then to have gushed. LOL!

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