This girl at a restaurant that I work at clearly likes me I got her # and we talk almost everyday on AIM and we really have great chemistry. We can have deep conversations in person, or random hilarious conversations about things such as broccoli. It just flows. At first when I asked her out she said she would love to. But then she had something come up at the last moment. Now I've asked her out a couple more times and I just get a legit sounding excuse that she's too busy with school or work. But she's told me that she promises that well go out and she's not lying. Or maybe she isn't ready for a relationship? I thought you make time for the people you like? What should i do to know soon if i should move on or keep trying?

Well I'll be honest, you never know man..
If she's in school like you said she might be really busy with a lot of things, and maybe it wouldn't be time for a relationship.
I know that school life is really crazy and hecktic with your studies and social life, and balancing a job at the same time can make things a little bit more difficult.

This is definately one of those times that you gotta play your cards right, and hope it sticks. If you begin to notice she doesn't want a relationship, settle for FWB. Don't wait too long, otherwise you'll be stuck in the friend zone. Make a move, escalate, and if she doesn't want a relationship at least you won't be in the friend zone.

Hint: Avoid the friend zone. Be cautious of the friend zone

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Thanks bro, lol shes in high school. So maybe shes just a HUGE exaggerater. I already told her that if she doesnt want to hang/ go out with me then she shoudl be hoenst. But she says shes just that busy and she PROMISES that we will and that i shouldnt give up. Im workin on a different girl right now to get my mind off of the girl i truly have feelings for. Its goin well with this other girl and i already made out with her on our first date.

Thats the way to go. And if your high school girl is that keen she will get back to you eventually and want to meet up. (who knows by then it might be too late for her as you may have another girlfriend! Remember you are always in demand, good work my son).

Haha! Exactly, spot on bro, spot on haha. Im on the "pedestal" not the girls i want to get with.