Right as your aware - I recently split from my long term Ex...

The situation I have now is this....

I work in an office environment and when i was with my girl friend, there was one girl who is 4 years younger than me...8/10 (8.5/10 if you include the massive breasticles)...

she continually emailed me and flirted all the time ,but as I had a girl i never reciprocated her advances...

while at our christmas party, she approached me (drunk I must add) and said "its only a bit of fun" and gave me those eyes that you could only imagine them looking up at you while she sucked my pole... Again, i denied it due to being in a relationship...

Since I split with my Ex, the wonders of facebook showed her that i was now back on the market...

She showed interest straight away, always commenting and flirting on my facebook page...

A few weeks back, i asked her to come out for a few drinks with our mutual friends- she harmlessly emailed me her number without me asking and told me to keep her informed of what was going on, which she did and we ended up having a kiss and a dance...admittedly we were both drunk..

After that night, she text me throughout the day none stop, called me at night time when i was in bed for a "chat"...

the following weekend, I was out with my friends in her home town. She called me and asked whether we wanted to go around her house for a few drinks till the early hours...

We did

My mates and her friends all ended up falling asleep or leaving, but me and her stayed up till 7am chatting and drinking all night long, as well as having the odd kiss and grope her and there...

The continous texting throughout the week and calling continued...

The weekend after this, i was again out drinking with my friends and she called me to ask if i wanted to come around and stay at hers, to save me getting a cab back to my house, I was happy to accept...although she did add on the text "this isnt me offering you sexual intercourse Mr Burns hehe"

I met her at around 2am in the morning after the club closed and we went back to her place....

I know we are both attracted to each other as she made moves on me straight away and kept saying "I need to stop throwing myself at you dont I"... i didnt know what to say...

We didnt have sex but had lots of foreplay and general canoodling....

BUT!!!!!

After that night.....she went completely cold. Hasnt text or called for two weeks.......

I dont have a clue whats gone on, i was hoping that this was a guarateed hump, but she has flipped the tables and cold shouldered me completely...

admitedly i have not text her more than once since, i sent one text and that was it, got one reply and then she stopped...

How can I play this?? I know that she wants a piece, but would you say her mates are cock blocking me as they know me also or is she playing the game?

How can i approach this in order to get her back onside??

IM DYING TO TEXT HER....but i dont know what to say as its been a few weeks and i dont want her to think..heres that bloke tring it on because he bored...i actually want to bed her as we both know we are not looking for a relationship and to me foreplay is opening the door in a way...??

Cheers fellas!!
Sam

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Bump!

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He who hesitates gets left to masturbate....

Everything seemed fine until the night you spent at her house. Are you leaving information out at all? Did you say something that made her feel uncomfortable, anything at all?

She showed intense interest in you for the week or however long and then went cold on you.

Something seems to be missing

Hi mate, no I didn't leave anything out at all. It's exactly how it happened...I left work before I could read your reply so I just took a plunge and text her the following-

"so should I leave you on my Christmas card list or are we not friends anymore u ignorant woman xx"

she replies

"haha, so why am I getting the grief off you hey? I have not heard from you either! , so how have you been Mr Burns?"

I replied with some general chit chat and she didn't reply fir about an hour, then an hour ago she calls me and says that she can't be bothered texting so she thought she would call instead....I've just spent the past hour on the phone to her laughing and joking....

She asked me to text her tomorrow or something, don't wanna seem like a desperado so I might leave it until tomorrow night and see what happens...

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