Well, i had been thinking about this theory for a wile, is about a case like cockblockers, but they abuse of a relationship break to take advantage and pair with a HB by mind tricking her. I call them the Fake Friend Hitter (FFH from now on). I will like feedback in this. Also i strongly DO NOT RECOMMED TO USE IT.
Lets star with the social theory:
Survival and Replication
We all know what S&R is, but now ill explain in what applies to the FFH.
Some men can really go to the deepest level of lameness. Some men will pay for a prostitute just to get a fake replication feeling. The action of paying the prostitute not only is a MAJOR DLV, but also shows the innhability of the men to get the "replication feeling" by themselves, so they need to create a fake one.
We all know many people would do anything to get the values of S&R, even by cheating on people. If they told u that by cheating to someone u will win a million €, would u do it? tempting, isnt it? Because our survival instinct tingles only by the mere idea of owning so much money that u dont have to worry the rest of your life for ur survival.
When a AFC man finds out that a couple is breaking, they see a window of opportunity to replicate with that woman. Maybe not conscious way, but more like his social programation kicking the very guts of his unconsciousness. There is where the FFH appears, and will do ANYTHING to mate with the newly single HB.
Fake care and advises
A real friend will always care for u, give u right advises and a kick in the butt if u need it so u can react to a determinated situation. Will help u grow inside and raise ur value.
The FFH instead are normally natural beta males, so they need to fake the alpha value in front of her. The way to do this is very simple, create a fake support. By saying to her "poor u, u must be feeling awful" they are instanctly showing a much higher value than her, so she finds herself on the need to qualify to him.
Fake advises like "you should be with him" when he is dying to get the girl also do hudge DHV spikes. He shows no interess on her at all, pulling her to be with the ex, but creates for him an alpha male sensation from her point of view, no matter how fake is
Another very sneaky trick is the "come here, give me a hugh". She will be qualifying to him instanctly, she is also moved to his personal space and feel really conforted, and if he ads a peaty pads on her back means more DHV.
Now we have a guy who has almost instancly jumped through all the attraction phases, straight to C1. Creating Rappor at this point shouldnt be hard, it will be almost instanct, because of all the actions taken before. She already feels very confortable with u, she feels u support her, no matter how fake is it, and with the right moves, she is ready for a K-close, even a F-close depending of the cases.
The Famous Rebound
Most of rebound relationships are created by this sleezy type of man. But the main rules says that what fast starts, fast ends. A 85% of rebound relationships end in total desaster, specially when the girl realizes that he is no alpha at all, but a lame beta who will do ANYTHING to get laid.
FFH not only with breaking up couples
The pattern of the FFH is seen everywhere, they are not rare at all. I bet some of u had already feel the effects of a FFH mesmerizing the girls to leave u/not return with u. That doesnt makes u less of a man, only that they are really pesky and sneaky. I talk for my personal experience, a f***ing FFH broke my family on a stressful moment.
Actually, analize urselves, most sure sometimes u had felt doing exactly the same when u knew that a nice HB was on trouble with her BF or already left him.
The FFH is programmed into our heads same than the S&R, in fact, we are all potential FFHs. Our replication value just cant resist help a lady when she is on distress. By helping them WE KNOW that her vission of our social status and value will rocket up to the sky, doing it right, with enough kino. If we dont move into kino then our LJBF value will also rocket, becomming an ugly girl, the towel they will use clean the tears of that other guys left.
PUA way better than FFH
As you had noticed, the FFH uses a bad time to take advantage of a girl and to escalate really quick to C1, is a very sleezy practice that we all have programmed in our heads, try to aboid it, its manipulating a girl on need to get her favors. Sooner or later she will reallize that she is with u because u supported her, not because she really likes u from inside, so she will dump u as fast as she gets it.
The PUA creates genuine attraction, genuine confort, and genuine seduccion, so she will genuinely like us for who we are. That betters our chance of creating a healthy relationship. Isnt that for what the Venusian arts are there for?
My plan of using FFH for good
In my case, i also have been damaged by an FFH, i placed a post in this section explaining what happened to me, and how by acting alpha and by C&Fing her i had get back her attraction.
Now i had realized how to get her back on PUA stile taking advantage of the FFH knowledge i have now. Wile i create more attraction towards her, ill create more doubts about what she feels for him. That will totally diminish her relation with him, creating a future break point, in where ill FFH her like there is no tomorrow. Ill get her so crazy for me she will hate his guts.
The difference is that i had created a genuine attraction befor, not only by supporting her, so she will still like me for who i am, not what i did.
Like i sayed in the post where i explain my problem, i have good reasons, is the health of my family on play here. I want to at least give it a chance.
Well, guys, feedback please, or new ideas, if u readed so far on the post, awesome, take a little time to give an oppinion or an experience regarding a FFH encounter.
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