Hey guys,

This girl I've been seeing left for the summer so we are now 3-5 hours away, depending on drive or bus. While on a SPAM date she suggested we meet in a city half way, rent a hotel for the night and party, obviously i was like hell yea. She said she had to ask her boss for time off, the next day i asked if she got time off and she said she couldn't ask until the next day, so i said aight. It has been days now and she has not updated me, i know she has been up to stuff and not busy or anything because of activity on facebook.

I really,really like her and she has not done anything at all to indicate shes not really into me, infact shes demonstrated time and time again that she really likes me. The thing is, flaking like that, or just not getting back to people is my BIGGEST PET PEEVE.

To make things worse, i'm getting to get all these thoughts about her not being interested ever, the scenario that she was just playing me the whole time and it goes on, i'm sure you all that position.

I have not msged her or anything because i dont want to come off as clingy or too eager but i'm really annoyed now, cant focus on anything else and i think i just want to send a message telling her cya later i guess, just to make it concrete. i cant game other girls until i get some sort of closer on this but i really like her and dont want to drop her, what should i do?

Edit: if you need more details i'll be happy to give them.