I met a girl about 6 months ago who I developed a thing for really quickly. She had just started seeing someone when we met and she turned me down saying that it wouldn't be fair to me or the other guy if she dated both of us. I have stayed in touch with her since maybe talking every 3 weeks or so and still want something to happen with us.

Last night I ran into her at a club and I just said hi and went on my way. Later on she pulled me onto the dance floor and danced with me in a way not necessarily fair to her boyfriend. I at least know she finds me attractive if nothing else. Later on we danced again and I don't know what it is but I feel a super strong connection with this girl.

My plan is to go for her when her and her boyfriend break up and I'm wondering if I should contact her tonight or tomorow just saying I had a good time with her, or just leave it for awhile.



Thanks.

So for starters, there's a saying that Nice guys finished last. But who cares if you end up with the girl after all .

Well dont worry about the BF. Maybe she's finishing, read she's ready to be breaking up with her BF. Just continu as you we're you'll manage.
Do whatever feels right, thats always the best thing todo.

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True communication is communion―the realization of oneness, which is love! ~ Eckhart Tolle

If you really want her the next time you talk just tell her your seeing someone, that will interest her and she will want to be around you more, then just show her your value and what you bring to the table, but most of all be yourself:)

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